i really like this guy and hes not very cute (i mean hes cute in my eyes) to my friends and i really like him....they figure out that i like him and stuff and i just wanna kill'm how do i get um to stop???
i really like this guy too...
2006-09-08 11:48:43 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i think he knows and he dosnt act so supriced when they say it he just rolls his eyes
2006-09-08 11:50:39 · update #1
hes eyes a gorgeous
2006-09-08 11:53:39 · update #2
it doesn't really matter what your friends say if you like him they must respect your feelings .. maybe they are just jealous
2006-09-08 11:54:43 · answer #1 · answered by CrAzY LoVeR 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
for one thing, who cares what your friends think? if they are teasing you because you like a guy that they dont like, then they arent very good friends. Also, when you grow up, your going to learn that looks arent everything. beauty is in the eye of the beholder. A guy can be soooo hot but a total ***. or butt ugly and a perfect gentlmen. Follow your own heart and ask him out. and if your friends talk ****, put them in their place. tell them that if they were really your friends they would be happy for you instead of talking ****. They shouldnt be so superficial as to think that everything is based on looks. what about whats on the inside...your friends sound shallow and you should tell them that.
2006-09-08 11:54:01 · answer #2 · answered by stephanie f 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well why do you like him in da first place ? His personality, good looks, charm, sophistication, the way he dresses, his build, attitude, intelligence ?
If they're bugging you bout it, why does it bug you ? What are they saying ? Are they calling him a loser ? Are they laughing @ you for liking him ? Is he an outcast ? Tell them that you see something in him that others don't... If they're your friends they shouldn't be bugging you. Maybe you can politely ask them to stop... or you can ignore them when they bug you & not talk to them... Who knows, you 2 could hit it off really good :) Does he know that you like him ? Maybe try to talk him to him, get to know him a lil better :) I don't know how old you are but if they're bugging you cuz you like someone, I'm guessing that you're all young & still having your first crushes. If that's the case, well, most peeps grow out of "bugging" their friends who like someone. Good luck !!! :)
2006-09-08 11:55:45 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be secure in how you feel and don't let what your friends think bother you. I went through the same situation when I was a Freshman in High School. I went for it and he and I ended up dating ALL through high school AND my friends were jealous by the time we were Seniors because he was the cutest guy on the football team by then! YAA HOO for me! and - YAA HOO for you!
2006-09-08 11:51:44 · answer #4 · answered by nattie_mae 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Word? your just like me I like lots of chicks who my friends say are ugly, I learned to live with it don't worry bout those haters all you have to do is get acustiomed (acustomed means used to) to them making fun of you like if they bring it up say "so" politely or just smile with them remeber the joke isn't very funny if they don't get your reaction then it starts to seem mean in a good way I hope I helped peace...
2006-09-08 12:00:44 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
And what can they do about it but talk.
Besides, If there reservations are on the basis of looks, then its not founded. Make them see how much you like the guy and vice versa.
However, don't ditch your friends because of this - no one knows tomorrow
2006-09-08 12:00:05 · answer #6 · answered by topgun 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Take no notice of them! If you like him and he likes you, what's the problem?
We all have different tastes when it comes to men and what some might find attractive, others don't. If we all thought the same and liked the same thing, life would be very boring!
Have fun :-)
2006-09-08 11:51:24 · answer #7 · answered by Twinkle 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You shoudnt care what yall friends say cause maybey they just hating of you and just act the sme like u use to and roll with it
2006-09-08 11:54:39 · answer #8 · answered by Seksi_gurl_06 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell your friends that you really like this guy, and if they value your friendship and your happiness they'll reserve their negative comments when you're around.
Remind them that it's YOU, not them who's dating this guy...
If they're really your friends they'll respect you. If not, be careful since they can act that way about other things, they don't really, truly care about your happiness.
2006-09-08 11:53:25 · answer #9 · answered by cleo715 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So what if they don't like him? They should be happy for you because he makes you happy. If they don't get over it, they're not good friends. Just tell them to stop talking crap and that it bothers you. Find new friends if they don't stop.
2006-09-08 12:02:01 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are one woman in a billion if you actually care more about the man than about your friends' opinion of the man.
If he rolls his eyes, it's PROBABLY because he doesn't believe them when they tell him, is sick of hearing it and afraid to believe it lest it get his hopes up.
2006-09-08 11:53:02 · answer #11 · answered by A Box of Signs 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋