There is a new school the city built because the two high schools we already have are overflowing. They had to redistrict the city so it wouldn't overflow the schools..my girlfriend lives in a diffrent part of town then I do and I only get to see her during school and I didn't get to see her AT ALL during the summer...and now she has to go to the new school while I have to stay at mine. What can I do?? I probably won't be able to see her at all..and I know that next year is coming so it's making me real depressed...
2006-09-08 11:31:16 · 20 answers · asked by RKO 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you have a girlfriend and you can't see her, it's time to find a new girlfriend.
2006-09-08 11:34:30 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you're young, you'll find another girl. Why not call and talk to her all the time. The key to long distance relationships is communication, so be honest with one another and talk/email/text or whatever as often as you can. While you two grow up it'll be easier, so why not make peace now by saying in a few years you'll give her a call and see if you can't make things work. Not going to lie, it'll be hard if you are in different schools cause you are each going to have your own friends and things going on. If its meant to be, it'll be. Don't put so much pressure on things between the two of you, and seriously just communicate between one another. All the best!
2006-09-08 18:36:40 · answer #2 · answered by Hannah 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Set up a definite time to see each other each week - whether it be a weekly date (dinner & a movie) or making the effort to meet for coffee - call it a 'study date' - parents usually love any event with the word 'study' in it.
Also if either of you play sports - go to each others games when you can, show your support in little ways - it'll add up to quite a lot.
2006-09-08 18:35:09 · answer #3 · answered by oimiz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're that worried, is there any way you can transfer to her school? If you can't transfer to her school, you really should consider discontinuing the relationship, I mean, if you never see her, what's the point of staying together. Eventually, one of you, are going to start seeing/dating a person you can actually see most of the time.
2006-09-08 18:38:06 · answer #4 · answered by A_WWE_FAN_4LYFE 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you talked to her about how you feel! If not then all you will do is feel more depressed. Why don't you two get together and hang out after school or on the weekends?
2006-09-08 18:32:46 · answer #5 · answered by lttlbt22 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have a valid reason (make one up if you have to) you can change school boundry zones. Say something like, there is a kid in the other school who is making your life horrible. If you tell them something like that they will switch the boundries for you. Don't just say "oh my friend goes to that other school" because they won't swtich it for you. Another option is to get yourself expelled (lol). A little extreme but it would get you out of that particular school.
2006-09-08 18:33:43 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to make an effort to spend time with her. Love is a strong experience, so strong that the smallest flaws dont break it, but I think it aint going to work out if you guys dont make an effort. that measn you dont love each other.
2006-09-08 18:38:13 · answer #7 · answered by fmed64 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WEll if you didnt see her all through the summer then maybe you guys should break up... or maybe get a car so you can travle and see eachother unless your still to young to drive... but yea or maybe ask your mom or someone to driv eyou to see her........
2006-09-08 18:35:17 · answer #8 · answered by No 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you tried to see her after school or maybe on weekend.
2006-09-08 18:35:56 · answer #9 · answered by Happy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you really like each other than you will find a way to work it out. you guys are young and maybe its time to let go. if its meant to be your paths will cross again.
2006-09-08 18:36:44 · answer #10 · answered by rose45 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋