I dated this guy a long time ago and we ended up breaking it off after a year then i felt miserable and rebounded with this other guy who later down the road turned out to be a good guy which im dateing now. I have never gotten officially over my ex and since we are close its hard because he has wanted me back and i would give anything to be with him again! but then again the guy im dateing is perfect and knows i still love my ex but is willing to stick around because he knows something will work out... help what do i do
2006-09-08 11:23:25 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
when the reason we broke up was we were to infatuated with eachother and depended on eachother at such a young age we both got scared and freaked out
2006-09-08 11:35:23 · update #1
he is an ex for a reason. why ruin something good now?
2006-09-08 11:26:10 · answer #1 · answered by coolman_48413 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, figure out why you and your first ex broke up. Second, figure out why you haven't "officially" gotten over your ex. Third, why give up "perfect" for someone who apparently wasn't because you broke up for SOME reason....I've been there ......I remain friends with the ex I was engaged to, but am married now to the best man I ever knew in my entire life! If and when I have "pangs" of feelings for the ex, I remember why we broke up, then I get the heck over it real quick! Make yourself a "pro" and "con" list for both.
2006-09-08 11:30:18 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should hook up with the ex, after all you are the kind of woman that only wants to live for the drama, you don't love your ex, you love the crap and being played, do the right thing for the guy your dating, leave him before you tear out his heart by cheating with your ex, you know your going to if you already haven't.
2006-09-08 11:29:59 · answer #3 · answered by ldp88 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
phewwwwww your life sounds like a soap opera gone wrong,first of all you have created a total mess for yourself.Sorry if thats harsh but sometimes the truth is very harsh.You need to decide what you want and stop playing around with peoples feelings.I think you need to take some time,take things slowly and determine if its worth the pros and cons to get involved in a relationship that didnt work out the first time.Only you can get yourself out of this cycle.
2006-09-08 11:26:58 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well the other guys is your ex for a reason i wouldn't back track if i were you i would stay with you bf and see where that road takes you :) because you already know whats down the other and where it ends :) good luck
2006-09-08 11:26:29 · answer #5 · answered by jenn03 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
once you've a maximum acceptable buddy that receives mad over no longer some thing she needs to envision out herself. tell all of your those that you could not go with because you do not choose everyone to sense disregarded. straight forward answer,do not get your locker adorned and if a number of pals opt to do it besides then so be it. You stay out of the entire project,stay impartial and enable them figure it out.
2016-11-06 22:24:05 · answer #6 · answered by bulman 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stuck with the guy u have dont cheat that would be bad
2006-09-08 11:27:17 · answer #7 · answered by Xx iight i got U Xx 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do them both a favor and leave them well alone..they both don't deserve you.
2006-09-08 11:29:16 · answer #8 · answered by Shawn E 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
play em both
2006-09-08 12:05:43 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋