..... I'm in Jr. High.. and everyone i know is being asked out or haveing bf's and im not..... no matter what i do guy's just don't talk to me........ Is there something wrong with me? I mean i do think im pretty... and not completley fat.... just have some curves and a butt....... i just feel like i don't existe.
2006-09-08 11:21:21 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It really suprises me that guy's on into stick girls!!!!!!!! ):
2006-09-08 11:22:07 · update #1
I'm dark blond
Blue eyes
I wear really hott clothes... well tight jeans and a tee.
2006-09-08 11:23:57 · update #2
you need to hear the Apple Story hun. Nothing is wrong.
----------------Girls--------------
-----------are like apples------
-------on trees. The best ones-----
-----are at the top of the tree.-----
---The boys dont want to reach---
--for the good ones because they--
-r afraid of falling and getting hurt.-
-Instead, they get the rotten apples-
from the ground that arent as good,
but easy. So the apples up top think
something wrong w/ them when in
-reality they're amazing. They just--
---have to wait for the right boy to
---- come along, the one who's-
----------- brave enough to-----
---------------climb all---------
---------------the way--------
--------------to the top--------
-------------of the tree.---------
2006-09-08 11:30:48 · answer #1 · answered by coolman_48413 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I know you feel pressured to have a boyfriend, I felt like that, too. Then I actually thought about it, what is the point of having a boyfriend at our age? Hm? You don't have a serious relationship, and you're just going to end up breaking up anyway. Honestly, you will. Do you think there's a future in dating when you're 13 or whatever age you are? You're not going to end up getting married, so what's the point? I'm actually looking forward to my High School sweetheart. Fantasize about that instead of being upset about not having a boyfriend now, it's way more fun -- trust me.
2006-09-08 18:29:14 · answer #2 · answered by x 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there's nothing wrong w/ you.. u have to keep up that confidence in yourself :). its really refreshing to hear a young girl be proud of her looks, and her curves. however, u must first work on keeping that confidence, *no matter what* situation you are in!! whether it is boys around you not really asking you out, or friends that are less "pretty" than you, but being asked out, whatever it is.. don't lose the confidence.
1st of all, u want someone who likes YOU..not your body. not cuz ur "skinny" or even pretty. someone who likes YOU.
2nd, u need to feel beautiful in order for someone to see it. even if it takes longer than u expect, u still need to keep that confidence until someone sees it. don't let these situations lower the way u see yourself.
if i were u, i'd just continue working on my studies, and on my personality. (if u feel chubby, work out, exercise, but if u are happy w/ urself, don't worry). the more FUN u have w/ ur friends, and the more FUN u have w/ people in class, the more u focus on Healthy, Positive, and Happy things, the more people will see the good things about you!!
i always had guy friends, but no one really asked me out, and i didn't have a boyfriend until college!!!!!!! :O! but i always was able to be comfortable/confident around guys... because i knew my personality was fun. don't worry, it WILL happen. one day u'll be annoyed cuz there's too many boys! :)
2006-09-08 18:27:09 · answer #3 · answered by sasmallworld 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't worry. . you don't NEED a bf right now. . or any time soon.
I know it can be hard and lonely to not have one when it seems like everyone else does. .
but bf's bring plenty of problems, too. . esp at that age. .
You'll be fine without one, and at the right time, one will come along. .
don't worry about this too much. . I know there's SO much pressure to be in a relationship at such a young age, but really, you don't need it.
and I'm sure you're plenty attractive. . don't you worry, just be yourself, and enjoy your time in Jr High, and you'll be fine and at the right time. . the right guy will be there. .
Also, don't think you have to dress like a prostitute to get a guy's attention. You don't. .
like I said, time will bring the right guy along . . it may not be til 9th or 10th grade, but you don't need a guy around anytime soon right now anyway. . :)
2006-09-08 18:24:02 · answer #4 · answered by Wayne A 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
U are not to blame, neither anyone else is. U should be more confident so as to speak to boys! What the hell, they 'll replay! I know people twice as fat that do have many social relationships, appearence doesn't matter, image and body language does. Trust me!! Hope be of some help...
2006-09-08 18:27:35 · answer #5 · answered by ThEowL 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey girl, there is nothing wrong with you at all. Don't border about making guys come to you or you might regret it later. Just keep ur cool snd keep being good and ur "dream guy" will work up to you someday and i believe is pretty soon. Beside good guys don't care about loos. i'll ask u out lol.............
2006-09-08 18:32:06 · answer #6 · answered by smiling G 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Im sure you are adorable. Dont worry about it. Sometimes, guys get nervous to ask pretty girls out. They will come around.
2006-09-08 18:22:57 · answer #7 · answered by dirkdiggler9999 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I bet you are a cutie pie. Boys are as nervous to talk to girls as you are to talk to them. If there is someone special you would like to know, just go up to him, and say Hi, start talking about his interests. Boys love it when you are interested in the same things they are.
2006-09-08 18:25:12 · answer #8 · answered by Harley 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ummmmmmmm i don't think so but if u want to be with sum1 u should ask them instead
2006-09-08 18:23:39 · answer #9 · answered by Tina 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋