Umm i need to know?

Question

There is this girl and we went out twice b4, i really really like her, and she picks on me alot. Like today at school we had a school dance and she told me when she came home that she saw me dancing, i mean does that mean anything?.We talk all the time, but when i say we went out twice i mean we were like boyfrind and grilfreind, i really really wanna go back out with her, but she said she cant cause she wants to focus on her school work, which i can toltaly understand that, and i want her to do good, its just im scared of lossing her, and i am woundering if she likes me or not?? If anyone could please help me and give me some tips on what to say to her to keep her to stay and so forth. Please any help would be greatly appreciated!!!


Thanks,
Paul

Yes but now when we talked, i got kicked off of im and now she is mad at me, i told her i was srry, and i told her i still like her but she dont believe me at all

Answer 1

Right now, it sounds like she is wanting to concentrate on school and she would rather remain friends, instead of boyfriend/girlfriend, but don't take that in a bad way because I don't think that's how she means it. Sometimes having a boyfriend or a girlfriend, can put unnecessary stress on a person and it interfere's with school. When she said she saw you dancing, she was just acknowledging to you, that she saw you, her saying that, meant nothing, in a bad way. It sounds like you really like her and i'm sure, she likes you as well, as a great friend. Stop worrying about losing her, if it's meant to be, someday you two will date again, but for now, talk to her like you normally do and don't force her into being your girlfriend. She's very lucky to have a caring friend like you and I bet she will agree with me. I hope my words have given you some comfort. Take care.

Answer 2

Call her and ask her out. Maybe to the library. Maybe just for a burger. Let her know that you don't expect to be out for a long time, just a few minutes. Then - as things progress, you two can spend more time together. Don't pressure her! Very important!

Answer 3

Dont consider someone lost if you never really had that someone to begin with. Casual dating is what it is: "try outs. If she doesnt avoid you and makes conversation with you still, great!
You cant make someone 'stay' if they dont want to. Two people who really like each other mutually and want to be together will find a way to communicate.

Answer 4

I dont no this girl so i cant really answer but i would just tell her if she doesnt want to go out with me or does she really want to do schoolwork

Answer 5

it means she noticed you adn she was thinking about you. i think she still likes you but wants to focus right now on school. you coudl be supportive and if you stil want to spend time iwth her maybe you shoudl study to gehter! that would be great. then you woudl still be together but workign together towards each other's goals! do that paul.

Answer 6

Please do not try to hard I know from experience that guys can be too nice and try to hard so just back off and that will make her want you even more, let her see you talking with other girls and so on. just let her see that you can do without her and she will come around when she is ready

Answer 7

The saying "focus on schoolwork" is female code for leave me alone you hopeless loser

Answer 8

she likes you
be close friends with her help her whenever she needs help attract her as much as possible

Answer 9

well if she's picking on you then i think she likes you, just like "do stuff" with her and then she'll like you and u can go out

Answer 10

dude, i think youve already lost her. skollwork? come on. get real.