I've asked it before and I'll ask again.?

Question

So there is this guy named adam, who I like and I'm pretty sure he likes me back. But it's a complicated situation. See, he has a girlfriend. And I want to make something clear I DONT WANT TO BREAK THEM UP so don't anyone give me that crap. But I really like him and he told my friend some stuff to make me positive he likes me. Then that was last year. This year he and his gf are still together, he knows I still like him and for some reason now he won't let me talk to him. It's like he's avoiding me, and I don't know why. Does he feel uncomfertable around me? Or what? And I've tried forgetting about him-it doesn't work for me.

Alright, so, this is what my TRUSTWORTHY friend told me. He likes me, and would have left his current gf for me if I had asked him a few days before or after I did. That his gf was being mean to him then, and things like that. Ya, I am some love-sick teen with a crush, but this guy is cute, sweet, interesting, and sorta funny. And he's one of the only guys ever nice to me. Maybe I should just move on. Gog I'm pathetic.

Answer 1

he's probably attracted to you, but for some reason is having trouble breaking up with his girlfriend. his girlfriend could've gotten mad at him for liking you, so he's avoiding you to make sure that he's not being tempted by you. don't EVER try to forget the one you love..... it won't work.

Answer 2

Maybe he does feel a little uncomfortable around you. That is an awkward situation. He could be trying really hard to make things work with his current gf and he can't do that if he's worrying about you. Try talking to new people, new guys and hanging out with your friends. Concentrate on school work or extracurricular activities to keep your mind off of him. Maybe once he sees that you aren't so focused on him, he'll feel it's already to talk with you and be your friend. And maybe by that time, you'll have met someone that wants to be with you and you only. You deserve that much.

Good luck and sorry I can't help more...

Answer 3

People can still be attracted to others while in a relationship.
And unfortuately, some act on it and make big mistakes.
Others don't act on it because they have respect for who they are with and so they stay their distance as best as they can.
In your case, your friend has chosen to not talk to you.
So let it go. And take a note from this. This shows this fellow you like has good character.
So if he ever does break up with his g/f. And looks you up and you get together you know that you can probably trust him not to do that you, be unfaithful....
But don't be wishful thinking. Go out and meet other guys.

Answer 4

She does not opt to chat to you. She could be busy, besides the fact that it purely takes a jiffy to hit respond and deliver a message. She needless to say does not opt to and your behaviour is amazingly lots crossing the line to obsession and ought to actual carry approximately stocking. i will actual inform you, i'm happy i'm no longer her reason you variety of scare me. Sorry. All you're able to do is look for a counsellor.

Answer 5

Okay, so you don't want to break them up... Why try to keep talking to the guy. If he was really interested he would talk to you. Obviously he doesn't want to break up either.

What are you going to do? Wait and hope that he does so you can take sloppy seconds? Be pleasant and move on... there are plenty of guys out there that would love to make you their number one!

Answer 6

=T sounds like he's doing the "right thing" ...for his girlfriend. :( if he knows you like him, and that he may have feelings for you if he keeps talking with you, he is distancing himself in order to respect his girlfriend.

if i were you, i would leave him alone. first of all, if he wants you, he will come after you. he needs to leave that girl, and come after you. second, if u keep pursuing him, trying to talk to him, u are pretty much trying to sabatoge that relationship, and not respecting his decision to distance himself.

it is hard, and it's sad when u like someone who is involved w/ someone else. makes it even worse that u know he used to like u etc!!! but i would just work on MY life... my interests, my friends, my Fun in life, my appearance, my personality..the better and happier, and confident I am, the more i know i will meet new people and have a better time. also, the better I am, the more likely someone great will like me too. therefore, if he decides u are really fun and sweet and nice and he would rather be w/ you, fine, that's his decision to leave his girl. but at least this way, u are not purposely ruining something by going after him, and u are giving yourself chances to meet NEW people. good luck~

Answer 7

It was only sexual attraction on his part, if it were anything more, he would of left his girlfriend. Apparently he is mature enough to remain in the relationship he feels most confident about. I hope you are able to find someone like that too. Admire that trait in him as well as his good looks and personality. Try wishing him the best and start dating other people.

Answer 8

He wants nothing to do with you romantically. Did you ever think that the "friends" misunderstood what was said? Or just flat lied to you? Now he probably knows what was said and is very uncomfortable. Just forget about him. No woman should want someone who doesn't want her.

Answer 9

Then move on, he is already involve with someone, so if he decides to leave her for you, what makes you think he will not do the same thing to you. I not saying forget about him or control your feelings, but just leave it alone, or you will have real drama on your hands.

Answer 10

Don't waste your time, move on. If he likes you like you say he does, but doesn't break up with the g/f and is now avoiding you then forget him.