this guy in my math class that sits in front of me is really really hot, but he's such a d i ck. he turned around and looked at me, and started licking his hand..like how he would... you know... to a girl.. and smiling at me.
and it's so weird
and today he passed me a note that said "let's skip next period and i'll let you blow me in the janitors closet"
i just looked at him
and i never answered. i just went to my next class. i really can't believe he passed me a note saying that.
he's only doing that because he knew i had a crush on him. and we're only sophomores in highschool!
what should i do?
2006-09-08 10:33:33 · 32 answers · asked by lia 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i don't have a crush on him anymore. ever since he started doing that i stopped. and now he won't leave me alone.
2006-09-08 10:42:10 · update #1
Tell him you are not interested and then ignore his advances. If he persists, report him.
2006-09-08 10:36:01 · answer #1 · answered by whtknt 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best thing is to ignore him and he probably will get the hint and leave you alone. If he doesn't then you should tell him that you are not interested in him and that he should leave you alone. If this does not work then you need to talk to your parents and adults at school. Don't let him embarrass you or make you do something you don't want to. If sounds like he hasn't grown up and doesn't know how to treat someone with respect.
2006-09-08 10:39:07 · answer #2 · answered by David P 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's called sexual harassment.
It may take some courage, but I'd confront him and tell him that you don't like his behavior and notes. Tell him to stop or else that you will let the teacher or school administrator know. If he continues, then follow through on it.
It doesn't matter if the guy is hot, he's not viewing you as someone to treat with respect. No nice way to say it, but you need to realize that and learn to respect yourself more.
2006-09-08 10:42:59 · answer #3 · answered by callahan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should get over him and ignore him. Indulging even the slightest bit into a guy like this and your just gonna end up feeling used, or playin the fool. You know if you go to extremes the minute you come out of that closet he will be telling everyone and it will brand you with slut the rest of your school life. Just concentrate on friends and schoolwork and dont worry about it. If he starts to make you uncomfortable you should tell someone of authority you trust because this is sexual harrassment, and they can easily get him transfered out of that class.
2006-09-08 10:38:09 · answer #4 · answered by Rae 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe u should go blow him!! alright lemme get serious.. well since u know he's an asshole get over ur crush if u still have it.. n how do u get back at a guy like that i dunno.. well actually i kinda do but thats kinda harsh.. kick him in the nuts.. it'll help.. damn that hurts.. alright actually forget that.. lets see uhhhhhh.. u could just slap him in public n tell him to grow up.. do this in the hallway when he crosses u next time.. n then when u do slap him start crying.. takes a good actor r some deep feelings to do that.. try it r go with the nuts idea..
2006-09-08 10:44:12 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Didn't it just embarrass you soooooooo much ....what could you have said ? You yourself said he was really hot but such a
d i c k .If you went away beating yourself up.....good for you....you realize just how much a d i c k he really is ? Crushes are just that.....they are an introduction to young people becoming aware of their inner feelings and what they think love might look like..........sweetie....you are only a sophomore..
you have only begun to live ......there's Sooooooooooo much
more out there.....go live it !!!
2006-09-08 11:08:57 · answer #6 · answered by Blondie B 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do not encourage him in any way. He is vulgar and a total embarrassment. If you went out with him, the whole school would know every detail of your date plus his own elaborations. Indeed his brains are in his pants-you need better than this. He is an exhibitionist-look for someone who isnt vulgar! I hope your crush on him is over now.
2006-09-08 10:40:04 · answer #7 · answered by angeldust 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Report him! Report him! Report him!
What he is doing is sexual harassment, pure and simple. Don't let this sleazy boy get away with it.
Tell your parents! Tell the principal! Tell the police! Shout it from the rooftops until he is punished.
If some guy did that to my daughter I would kick the crap out of him.
Report him!
D
2006-09-08 11:03:44 · answer #8 · answered by Bugsy Groucho 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should stay away from him at all costs. He just wants pleasure from you. He thinks he can get "some" from you just because you have a crush on him. That is one messed up dude. When you go to school, sit as far as you can away from him.
2006-09-08 10:38:18 · answer #9 · answered by Kevin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Good looks with no personality to speak of is rather like a frosted turd. He's pretty on the outside, but inside he reeks.
Ignore this loser and go out with somebody worthy of you.
2006-09-08 10:37:22 · answer #10 · answered by vita64 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know what? go to your classes, and get an education, don"t let these guys stop you from getting the best education, you will have plenty of time to have boys in your life.
2006-09-08 10:40:44 · answer #11 · answered by roseannetb@verizon.net 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋