broke it off with her fiance but then i found out yesterday im pregnant what should i do?
2006-09-08 10:07:46 · 29 answers · asked by Kristina2006 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Oh what a mess you got yourself into. Tell fiance first if you plan on keeping the baby. Then the two of you have some talking to do. You lost atleast your best friend and maybe the lover too. So sorry you got yourself in this. I know, it wasn't suppose to happen, but it did. You can't be just a little pregnant. Time to confess!
2006-09-08 10:15:36 · answer #1 · answered by flower 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First you should be honest with your friend. Knowing, that friendship is over, then you need to inform your bed buddy, that he'll soon be a daddy. Life throws us lemons, now make lemonade. Grow up and become responsible about the choices you made. You knew, there were consequences.
2006-09-08 10:14:28 · answer #2 · answered by ~Jessica~ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its bad enough that you are sleeping with your neighbors fiancee and now you are preggo.....well done there...not. Before you can be true to anyone else, you must be true to yourself and by no means are you helping yourself out by sleeping with someone that isnt yours so to speak. Now you have a baby on the way, should you tell him...of course you should. There is someone's life at stake now, not just your own. COme on now, grow up and stop thinking your just your own needs.
2006-09-08 10:12:21 · answer #3 · answered by dlite1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well now since you are pregnant you have to be honest. If you know for sure that it is the fiance' then you should tell him and his girlfriend. Or tell him first and see what he thinks. Good luck girl.
2006-09-08 10:10:37 · answer #4 · answered by sweethonesty1699 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
tell him in private, If he is an honorable man he will do his best to either provide for the child and you or if he isn't then he may ask you to get an abortion, but I think the best thing to do is to not tell anyone who the father is, let them have their lives and give the baby up for adoption when it is born, the child deserves to grow up in a happy healthy home and their are so many good people who want to adopt. I was adopted and I can honestly say that I love my birth mom, she didn't give me up, she gave me more.
2006-09-08 10:12:39 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
what is up with you people sleeping with your best friends man? can't you find someone on your own? i would tell her i slept with him so she'll know what kind of a jerk he is and what kind of a so called friend you are, them i'd tell him i'm pregnant and ask him what he's going to do about it, then your friend can come to your wedding because if she's smart she'll call it off and tell the two of you to go be happy together.
2006-09-08 10:16:59 · answer #6 · answered by Texas T 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1. If she's truly your friend, find a way to warn her about her fiance's infidelity so she doesn't marry a cheater.
2. Deal with it. You've shown NO maturity or wisdom or ethics up to now, so here's your chance.
2006-09-08 10:12:30 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hate to break it to you, but to put it bluntly, youz a HO. how could you do that to your "best friend"? If she was really your friend, then you wouldn't have slept with her fiance. If your pregnant, and you want to keep the baby, then you need to keep your mouth shut. You also need to tell your friend that you've been sleepin with her man. so she can find out what kind of dog her man is BEFORE she gets married.
2006-09-08 10:12:25 · answer #8 · answered by baddest_ladybug 1 · 2⤊ 1⤋
You might as well spill the beans cuz he gotta know you having your baby and if he knows then she is definitely going to find out eventually.
2006-09-08 10:10:49 · answer #9 · answered by Coco 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
omg. what a mess. well, goes to show that you shouldn't have slept with him in the first place.
first you have to decide whether or not you want to keep the baby. that will tell you a lot about what you have to do.
2006-09-08 10:10:32 · answer #10 · answered by Kitty 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋