i love my x and he loves me but i have a boyfriend and my guy loves me too. i dont love my guy i just like him. i mean he is nice and king and very patient. but my heart sould mind and body belong to my x. what should i do. me n my x broke up because of me and how i treated him but although i treated him like **** hes still calling me and telling me that he loves me with all his heart. i love him too but i dont know what to do. my guy knows that i love my x and he just said that hes gonna wait for me. what should i do i dont wanna be lying to my guy about seeing me x..
2006-09-08 10:07:28 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
not good.
2006-09-08 10:08:54 · answer #1 · answered by prince47 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump them both and figure out what the heck you do want.
You don't love either one of these guys.
You're basically knowingly hurting both of them right now, and that's not something you do when you love someone.
Take a step back from the whole deal.
It's way too much of a mess to try and clean up from the inside.
You have to figure out why you treated the x like crap to begin with, and why you think it's okay to still be talking to the x if you have a current boyfriend. Not fair to either one of them.
2006-09-08 10:14:08 · answer #2 · answered by niffer's mom 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im in the same boat except my ex treated me like ****. let things chill with your ex...take some time to experience life. go out and have fun. Your heart will tell you who it wants to be with. you may take some time apart from him and realize that you "loved" being close to someone, not specifically him. or the opposite may happen, u may discover taht u actually care about him and cant live without him. or u could find out you want someone else, like me, lol.... hope this helps
2006-09-08 10:15:55 · answer #3 · answered by Nick B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK im in that situation right now im gonna brake up with my guy when ever i get to see him in person this is what im goin to say:::
im soo sorry but i cant go out with you im still in love with my ex im soo sorry but i dont want to lie to you im really sorry please forgive me can we be friends and im not goin back to my ex right now im gonna wait to see if i really love him or if i should stick with this guy soo this what im gonna do i just need some time and maybe you should to good luck
2006-09-08 10:13:40 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
okay, first of all, dump your current man, you are obvisiously stringing him along, second of all, i doubt that your ex really loves you, he just sounds jelous. so figure out what you want and do it already
2006-09-08 10:13:45 · answer #5 · answered by KELLY 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋