r one night stands ever okay?

Question

not sex but you know just making out and touching? i don't feel bad about it cuz i am single and the other guy only wanted to make out to but my best friend say i "should be ashamed of myself." what do you think

Answer 1

I think that's your business. And as long as you can continue to look yourself in the mirror and respect yourself, you shouldn't worry what others think.

Answer 2

You will undoubtedly get a lot of people writing on this thing to tell you that it is wrong to do what you suggest and that somehow makes you less of a good person. I disagree. If you both go into it with the proper set of expectations I don't see why, especially when you are young, you can't be sexually adventurous.

I wouldn't go around advertising that you are having a bunch of one night stands because the world is full of uptight ******* who will judge you. I understand that people have needs and, sometimes, those needs are best met outside the context of a relationship. If you feel as though you want to have a one-nighter and you can handle it, be safe and have fun. You will get no judgment from me, just jealousy of the guy you are thinking about making out with because that there weren't more girls like you when I was younger.

Answer 3

Why would you want to allow someone to know your body that you are suppose to be saving for your husband?
That is pretty sneaky isn't it?
Your future mate is trusting you to protect that which he will someday honor to be the Mother of his children.
Your children will one day have hoped they had a pure Mom and Dad that no sins would be visited upon them from the unknown.
It is not virtuous to just "play around." You are sending out wrong signals.
Remember, as a side note..........your best friend may not always be your best friend so do not tell them everything.
In your case your best friend can never look at you the same way.

Answer 4

There is nothing to be ashamed of. There are a billion people in the world telling you what you are and what you should do. For once, forget about your best friend, pop culture, and religion. Just do what feels right as long as it is safe and doesn't hurt anyone. That's why America is so beautiful. Take advantage of it. Think for yourself. You are beautiful and don't need anyone's approval.

Answer 5

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Answer 6

Do all these while you still can.

Just imagine the miserable 40 something year old fat you with 3 or 4 kids, a lousy pot bellied husband and a hell lot of headaches.

Dont you think a one night stand will be a dream for you then?

Answer 7

Sometimes you need a one night stand. Even if it is just s** but if I was you I would not tell your friend. She is telling you you should be ashamed but I bet you she has done the same thing at one point or another or she is jealous because you did it first. You go girl.

Answer 8

Listen girl friend, it is all a matter of setting your own limits and taking responsibility for your actions. I go out with a lot of boys and I have fun giving them hand jobs or oral. But I make things beyond that something very special. Have pride in yourself and do what you think is safe, fun and feels good. He's got hands too, you know.

Answer 9

They just to be....but now....it's just too much going around...even if you use protection.....if an issue was come up...how you would get in touch with that person to let them know? They could be infected and don't know going around infecting other people.....

One night stands now equal a lack of one's self respect considering you don't know how nasty that person can be....they could have licked the butthole of someone else that morning and turn around and kiss you that night! ewwwwww....

Answer 10

If you had a daughter, and she was sitting on your couch with a guy, would you want the guy mauling your daughter, and shoving his hands up her shirt, or down her pants just for the fun of it?

How would that make you feel. Now remember, this is your daughter, you gave birth to her, and you have an unconditional love for her.

Now, apply the answer to yourself, and have some pride and dignity for yourself.

Answer 11

One night stands are just fine - whether it's kissing, touching, sex and whatnot. As long as it's between concentual adults of legal age, it's all ok.