me and my bf broke up because of long distance but now we live like 10 minutes away from each other. we've been trying to keep up a friendship but he seems to have been pushing me away because it's been rough. I still Like him more than anything and i think about him all the time. Should I just be honest with him and myself and tell him what i feel about him? maybe ask him out again just to see?
2006-09-08 10:05:29 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i just don't know how to go about telling and talking to him though. I thought that maybe taking a shower together would make it more personal since i want him to just see me.. what do you guys think?
2006-09-08 10:11:10 · update #1
Yes! Be open and honest with him because you never know he could be feeling the same way. Once you do that then you know that you have done everything you could do to possibly start the realtionship over if there is a chance. If not then at least you know in your heart that you let him know how you feel and you will not have to beat you self up wondering if you would have just told him.
2006-09-08 10:12:53 · answer #1 · answered by Sweetcheeks 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweetie let me tell you something I learned a long time ago, its ALWAYS better to be honest than to keep you feelings balled up inside. If you want to make yourself feel better then tell him exactly how you feel, even if he does not feel the same, at least you know you told him and have nothing to lose. Being honest is the best way to know that its never your loss because you were always honest with yourself.
2006-09-08 10:17:05 · answer #2 · answered by grrrrme 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would be honest, clear the ear. Even if you told him there was no pressure, for your sake you would feel a hundred times better. At least if he turned you down you could get over it and move on. Anything is worth a try when your feelings are involved.
2006-09-08 10:11:28 · answer #3 · answered by pq4u72 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
men always want what they think they can't have. if you live close to each other it shouldn't be that hard to be "accidentally" seen by him when your with another guy. send him a card with a note that you are going to give him some space. DO NOT CALL HIM. let him call you. when you do see him smile, say hello and go your way. you have to let him know that your life will go on with or without him. he has to know that and so do you. if he doesn't come around then at least you'll know where you stand.
2006-09-08 10:17:37 · answer #4 · answered by handyman5218 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
being honest wont hurt after all, he was your ex-bf. go girl tell him! that will save you from wondering what i did tell him... just be ready for the result. if it turns out to be negative, then move on. at least you got the closure. goodluck!
2006-09-08 10:16:33 · answer #5 · answered by spam 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be honest with him and tell him that you still like him and see what happens.
2006-09-08 10:07:11 · answer #6 · answered by sweethonesty1699 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it could be that he is upset that you guys couldnt make it work. or maybe he has a new gf. ask him and dont take no for an answer. you need answers so go get them.
2006-09-08 10:09:05 · answer #7 · answered by mybizyagottaknowthat2 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be honest, but be ready for rejection
2006-09-08 10:09:04 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honesty is always the best policy
2006-09-08 10:08:43 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes - do it - but be prepared for a negative answer - at least you'll know you were honest.
2006-09-08 10:09:55 · answer #10 · answered by livetall1 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋