ok so my boifriend sayz it cheating but i think its only cheating if u have fun w/ a guy not a gurl. also when u boifriend is bein a jerk bout havin sex u kan go 2 ur gurl & have fun. so plz help
2006-09-08 09:57:19 · 32 answers · asked by sunnyass1324 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Though you are not married, a similar concept applies. Another word for cheating is adultery, with regard to marriage. By analogy the same would apply to a dating relationship though a little differently and without the rigidness of marriage. Adultery is basically giving something to someone that belongs to another, specifically giving your body to someone other than your spouse. This definition is based upon the belief that in marriage, a spouse's body is not their own, but is, instead, their spouse's "property". Husband literally belongs to the wife; and the wife literally belongs to the husband.
Anytime you give something to another, without regard to gender, that belongs to your boyfriend that is cheating. There is room for uncertainty in a dating relationship due to the fact that you do not have a spouse to belong to. In that sense, you possess yourself. Out of respect for your relationship with your boyfriend, I advise against pushing the envelope. If there is any cause for doubt and you wish to pursue a relationship with your boyfriend further, then don't take advantage of picking at words. It is better to be a little bit wrong regarding such things than it is to be right and unhappy. I do not say that is always the case, but your case seems to fit.
2006-09-08 10:15:50 · answer #1 · answered by Jack 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, it is. Cheating is having any type of sexual contact with anyone other than the person you have a relationship with. If your boyfriend didn't know about the girl beforehand, then yes, you cheated on him. He has the right to be upset.
How would you feel if he had sex with a guy? I am sure you wouldn't like it much either.
Pick one of them.
2006-09-08 10:01:20 · answer #2 · answered by Jen 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes
2006-09-08 09:59:15 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
convinced, i imagine it is considered dishonest because she is clearly flirting and in no way telling the guy to cease. I propose...this female has all of it incorrect. for sure "I wanna do u" means "i favor to attach with you". in my opinion flirting is dishonest because it truly is the step before hooking up. also, why were you on her myspace. it is truly own and invading of non-public sources. you need to detect strategies to trust your female friend and in no way snoop round her stuff. It appears like your relationship has some truly difficult edges already. i imagine you need to confront her and basically ask her instantly up if she is seeing yet another guy. She may have a proof of why she suggested that. besides, i do not imagine she is the right female for you. that's time to discover someone you may trust and who might want to also no longer cheat on you.
2016-11-25 21:03:11 · answer #4 · answered by chittenden 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it dont matter if you cheat on him with a gurl or with another guy its still cheating and you should decide who you wanna be with and stop hurting your boyfriend in that way because he dont deserve that.
2006-09-08 10:08:15 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
so what do you mean. you have sex with girls? yeah i would say thats major cheating. if you are going behind your guys back and doing stuff with anyone, that is classified as cheating..
hope i helped =]]
2006-09-08 10:00:32 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Cheating is cheating is cheating. Is it OK if your man did stuff with other guys?
2006-09-08 09:59:38 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Yes, it is cheating!!! And why on God's green earth would you want to be doing a girl to begin with?! I don't get that!! IT'S WRONG!!!! If I were your boyfriend I would dump you so fast!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Get a hobby!! Read a book! Learn a new trade!!!! Anything but that!!!!!!!
2006-09-08 10:04:08 · answer #8 · answered by dumplin57 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would call it cheating. Because it doesn't matter who you are doing stuff with you are still doing. But it sounds like fun!
2006-09-08 10:00:25 · answer #9 · answered by actresst22 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Cheating is whatever the two of you agree is cheating. Negotiate the deal.
2006-09-08 10:00:28 · answer #10 · answered by DelK 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋