Me and my ex still have strong feelings for each other, but we can't be together. He is unhappy with himself and many times treated me badly and we fought. So being together sucked....but being apart sucks. For the last year we keep trying to be friends...then blurring that line..then practically getting back together then fighting and confusion and back to not talking. The not talking last a week or so till we can't stand it and then the whole cycle happens again and again. Right now it's been five days since I said I can't talk to him anymore, since I'm so unhappy with the the bull **** situation we were in and obviously I can't just be his friend. Again I'm going through hell and want to talk to him. I know I shouldn't. How the freaking hell can I get over this!!! For christs sake it's been a year and a half of this and I even live in a different town.!!!
2006-09-08 09:55:31 · 9 answers · asked by Lisa 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It's really hard to let go, but you aren't really being true to yourself. You're not caring or being kind to yourself. You really do need to just make the mature decision to stop all of it. Stop being friends. That is going to help a great deal. Get him completely out of your life. It is much easier to make a clean break than going on this roller coaster. You've admitted you can't be together. Dig up in the strength in yourself and tell him goodbye for good. You don't need this crap. You are showing yourself to be very weak and I'm hoping this is not true. It's rough at first, but you are going to find yourself feeling more and more free and happy as time goes on. Just do it.
Much luck
-M
2006-09-08 10:11:08 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is very hard, but you have to let it go, because this is a bad relation and is not based enymore on respect and commitment, maybe the passion still exist but is not enough and sometime can be bad....
2006-09-08 17:01:50 · answer #2 · answered by brianlove_s 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like obsession and its hard to break the cycle. It will seem almost impossible to get over this person but your just going to have to find a way. Please try counceling. It helped me and I've been in your shoes before. GOOD LUCK.
2006-09-08 16:59:06 · answer #3 · answered by stephanierudder 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Never stay in a relationship when there is tension and unhappiness .. you have a yo yo type relationship and it is not healthy . move on and forget the past with him.you will never be happy or satisfied being with him.
2006-09-08 17:02:39 · answer #4 · answered by StarShine G 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're both drama queens. Stop it!!
2006-09-08 16:58:27 · answer #5 · answered by treasures320 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are a drama queen
2006-09-08 16:57:34 · answer #6 · answered by Mystery Guest 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try some one special.
2006-09-08 17:00:15 · answer #7 · answered by prince47 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
either admit you really love him or try dating someone else...
2006-09-08 16:58:23 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no you can't.... your a girl ... girls are stupid ... lets face it
2006-09-08 16:57:37 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋