lol i've just got into a relationship and we're both 16 years old. our personalities match perfectly and i want to give her everything i can. what can i do to her that will strengthen our relationship??
2006-09-08 09:52:05 · 10 answers · asked by confusedude529 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Ok first off make sure that you allways tell her exactly what you love about her. It is nice to hear a guy compliment you on your personality, your looks , ect.... when complimenting dont say sexy it makes it sound like you only want sex. Tell her she is beautifull and then tell her why she is beautifull. Cards are great. Especially if just once in awahile you send one to her out of the blue. Girls LOVE surprises. Take her out to eat , but not fast food. if you take her to fast food it isnt really a date. Do fun stuff with her and allways make time for her even if your completely busy. If she knows your too bust to really talk for a long time to her then just call and say hi , i love you. will leave her happy. Ha ha but definatly above all be yourself, dont act different around other people then when your with her.
Good LUCK!
2006-09-08 10:00:42 · answer #1 · answered by bamf 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The number one thing a guy can do is show he cares. Buying her things is great, an added bonus, but it isn't what she is dating you for. She is dating you because she loves your personality and how you make her smile. So show your personality off. Give her everything, but emotionally, not through stuff or money.
I hate it when I am out with a guy and they don't talk. Make sure you talk to her, talk about life, family, hobbies, anything and everything you can think of. Try being random too. Randomness can really make a nervous time interesting and fun for both of you.
And don't rush things. Show her that you respect her, her limits, and her family. If her parents say her curfew is at 10, have her home by 9:45. There is a chance she may not like it, but she won't get into trouble the next morning and you won't be the cause of it.
I love how you say "relationship". Keep things personal. Schedule plenty of quiet and alone time for the two of you. Keep it someplace with people around (the object of this isn't sex), but keep things personal.
The best tip is RESPECT. Always keep that in mind. And care about her. If she is having a bad day and doesn't want you around, don't be around. Give her space and she will draw close when she is ready.
2006-09-08 17:04:13 · answer #2 · answered by findandyoushallseek 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You could buy her flowers or roses occasionally. Maybe buy her some candy. You can take her to the movies and dinner. The best thing to do is to spend quality time with her, talk to her and have fun together. A relationship without communication isn't a relationship.
2006-09-08 16:55:56 · answer #3 · answered by Pink Princess 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1. Dont ditch her for your friends
2. Dont complain about cuddling
3. Spend a lot of time together
4. Kiss her if she likes it (I do)
5. Take it slow, unless she's willing
6. Dont ditch her for your friends (point stressed)
7. Dont swear when you are mad at her (it scares me when my boyfriend does)
8. When you are angry talk about it dont just up and leave and ignore her
9. Money isnt everything and I prefer hugs
10. Carry her books at school
11. Hold her hand
12. Love letters, I used to get those everyday
13. Poems?
14. Make a cd of love songs
15. Or a tape
16. Remember anniversaries (dating, first kiss, etc)
17. Dont allow your friends to talk to you about 'hott' chicks in front of her, its disrespectful and she wouldnt do it to you
18. Tell her often that you love her but dont be annoying
19. Dont DITCH HER FOR YOUR FRIENDS
20. Dont flirt with other girls around her
2006-09-08 17:00:58 · answer #4 · answered by GirlNextDoor 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be sweet. hold doors for her, tell her shes beautiful. not hott, sexy, or cute. beautiful. carry her books, and when she asks u to hold her purse for a minute, dont look at her like shes crazy. say u would be happy to hold it for her. and here are some other things u can add too:
44 things a gurl would die for!
1-touch their waist
2-talk to them
3-share secrets
4-give her your jacket
5-kiss them slowly
are you remembering this?
6-hug her
7-hold her
8-laugh with her
9-invite her somewhere
10-let her be with you when you're with your friends
keep reading
11-smile with her
12-take pics with her
13-pull her onto your lap
14-when she says she loves you more, deny it. fight back
15-when her friends say i love her more than you, deny it. fight back and hug her tight so she cant get to her friends. it makes her feel loved
Are you thinking about someone?
16-always hug her and say i love you when you see her
17-kiss her unexpectedly
18-HUG HER FROM BEHIND AROUND THE WAIST
19-tell her shes beautiful not sexy!
20-tell her the way you feel about her!
..20 u need to show her you mean it too
21-kiss her on the lips
22-DONT ask her to buy you stuff. you buy HER stuff
23-TELL HER WHAT FEELS GOOD
24-make her feel loved
25-buy her stuff. small things can still help
we might deny it but we accutally like and kinda want you to get us things
26-don't lie to her
27-dont cheat on her
28-take her anywhere she wants
29-txt messege or call her in the morning and tell her have a good day at school, and how much you miss her
30-be there for her when ever she needs you, & even when she doesn't need you, just be there so she'll know that she can always count on you
are you still reading this u better be its important
31. Hold her close when she's cold and she can hold you too.
32. When you are alone hold her close and kiss her.
33. Kiss her on the tip of her nose; (it will give her the hint that you want to kiss them).
34. While in the movie, put your arm around her and then she will automatically put her head on your shoulder, then lean in and tilt her chin up and kiss her lightly.
35. Dont ever tell her to leave even jokingly or act like you're mad. If shes upset, comfort her
remember this next time you are with her
36. When people diss her, stand up for her.
37. Look deep into her eyes and tell her you love her.
38. Lay down under the stars and put her head on your chest so she can listen to the steady beat of your heart, Link your fingers together while you whisper to her as she rests her eyes and listens to you.
39. When walking next to each other grab her hand.
40. When you hug her hold her in your arms as long as possible
MAKE SURE SHE KNOWS SHES LOVED
41. Call her at night to wish her sweet dreams.
42. Comfort her when she cries and wipe away her tears.
43. Take her for long walks at night.
44. Always Remind her how much you love her.
youll never know when she needs just a lil more love
2006-09-08 16:59:43 · answer #5 · answered by Miss Carlino 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1. DON'T FORCE HER TO DO ANYTHING.
[She won't trust you if you do & it'll be awkward]
2. Grab her hand when you walk next to each other.
[She always gets butterflies when you do it; it makes her feel like you want her]
3. When standing, wrap your arms around her.
[It makes her feel like you really love her.]
4. Cuddle with her.
[She'll feel like your there for her]
5. Hug her from behind
[It makes her feel special]
6. Write little notes.
[She smiles. They're cute; The end]
7. Compliment her Honestly.
[No girl likes a liar and no girl likes a person who lies about it when you compliment her]
8. When you hug her, hold her in your arms as long as possible.
[It makes her feel wanted]
9. Be super sweet to her. = )
[All girls like a super sweet guy]
10. Call her at night to wish her sweet dreams.
[She'll go to bed with a smile]
11. Comfort her when she cries.
[She'll feel like you'll ALWAYS be there for her]
12.Wipe away her tears
[It'll show you'll always be there]
13. Love her with all your heart.
[Not with your brain... or your ......]
14. Pick her up and flirt with her (she'll scream and say put me down but really she loves it).
[It's true boys!]
15. Be a gentleman (hold the door for her).
[Every girl loves a guy who is a gentleman]
16. DON'T let your friends talk trash about her, it'll get back 2 her
[& it'll make her feel like you aren't really there for her]
17. Take her for a long walk at night!
[She just wants to be alone. & that's not always bad. The world can be annoying sometimes & you just need to be alone.]
18. When it's cold outside hold her close
[You want her to be happy & she's happy in your arms]
19. Draw on or rub her back as she is tryin to rest or sleep
[This just feels good!] {not with a pen you idiot, with your finger}
2006-09-08 17:00:59 · answer #6 · answered by ::Hannah:: 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First a guy should always be honest and respectfull. I like my man to take charge of things sometimes. I mean like think for me a little just to take some of the stress off of me. He cooks for me and cleans on occassions. He rubs my feet and rubs my back. he's caring and thoughtful.
2006-09-08 16:58:20 · answer #7 · answered by hoddie518 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be there for her. Be her friend as well as her man. Dont try and over crowd her. Just be yourself and if you have so much in common it will come naturally. If you try to hard it wont work out. Good luck with your relationship.
2006-09-08 16:55:28 · answer #8 · answered by sweethonesty1699 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first thing you must give here love before any thing . And then you could bring to here some flower or any gift
2006-09-08 16:59:30 · answer #9 · answered by caption 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
just, be there. call a lot. not too much, though. do little surprises once in a while. hold her by the waist and whisper in her ear. kiss her when she yells at you.
2006-09-08 16:59:05 · answer #10 · answered by jenny lou 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋