2006-09-08 09:49:16 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
My fiance cheated on me. I was very angry and broke up with him. A few months later we got back together. But believe me, if you really love someone, you will feel so hurt and betrayed it will eat at you. Everytime I looked at him I just wanted to cry. How could the man that is supposed to be in love with me, cheat on me? That is a question you will never understand. Besides I believe that if you are ment to be together, you will remain faithful to the person that you love (I know that there are temptations, but it's how you act when presented with them) So, needless to say, we are no longer together, he still claims to be in love with me, but if it were really true, he would have fought his urges, god knows that I did.
2006-09-08 09:54:53 · answer #1 · answered by KELLY 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was dating this guy for two years. I found out after i kicked him out (we were having other problems). He was sleeping with this 43 year old woman (he was 23) We didn't talk for a few months. He tried calling me, but I refused to answer the phone. Finally I got tired of his harassing phone calls, and picked up the phone. He told me that he was soo sorry for what he did, and that he would never do anything like that again.
Things worked out for a while, but we were living apart. He treated me like a queen. I had to move into a 2bdrm, so I suggested that he come move in with me again, and he could pay half the rent. Things were great, but they only lasted for 5 months. I recently kicked him out again. Then I found out that when he was cheating on me it was for a year, and there was another girl.
Now he's gone, I've moved on. I don't even care to think about him anymore. Sometimes, you can give them a second chance, but it all depends on the situation, and how you feel about things.
2006-09-08 09:57:30 · answer #2 · answered by baddest_ladybug 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, we seperated after the first time he cheated and I let him back in and he cheated again. The best advice I can give is know your partner. Did he explain why he cheated? If so was the answer acceptable to you? It hard when you are in that situation. How long have you been together? Sometimes you have to count your loses in order to spare your feelings.
2006-09-08 09:55:25 · answer #3 · answered by kareful 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My husband cheated on me twice with his ex-wife. He had me so convinced that he would never do it, even though at the time she was stalking him like prey. Every time I would have to leave for a couple of days (when my work called for it) they would get together. Thats been 2 years now. She re-married but I still resent the hell out of the whole ordeal.
2006-09-08 09:52:53 · answer #4 · answered by stephanierudder 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well.........kinda. Actually me and my bf were together six years ago and he was talkin to another female (not sleeping with) which is still cheating in my book. We got back together a year ago after a five year separation and he has a three year old son with her. He wants nothing to do with her but it still sucks for me.
He has changed now but still men who do any type of cheating don't deserve a second chance no matter how much they have changed.
2006-09-08 09:52:12 · answer #5 · answered by Pink Princess 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes i did, he cheated on me four years in to our relationship. i got back with him because i did not want my two children at the time to be a victim of our upsets, i feel i owed it to them to try and work things out. yes things were okay after that, sex was alright when i wanted it, lol. but i never forgot the lies, the tears i cryed and the pain i felt... guess i never forgave him for that, but i accepted it. however as the time passed i realized i could be with some one that i doted on respected even and loved, when he did has he did my love died i lost all respect for him. so it was better to part. so i put up with it for four years after he cheated...hmmm will i get brownie points for that, lol.......NEVER CAN FORGET!
2006-09-08 09:56:59 · answer #6 · answered by loopy lass 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, and that was a huge mistake. He kept calling me his ex and was still cheating on me. Once a cheater always a cheater.
2006-09-08 09:51:46 · answer #7 · answered by lpogue2005 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he's already your ex, let him stay your ex. If you're married to him and both really truly committed to trying, then go to a therapist to help get through the emotional turmoil.
2006-09-08 09:52:28 · answer #8 · answered by janinenc2002 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I did 3 times before I finally realized once a cheater always a cheater. Each time you get back with him he will get better at hiding what he is doing. Girl, save yourself the trouble of getting hurt more and mover on. Good luck.
2006-09-08 09:51:40 · answer #9 · answered by sweethonesty1699 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
He cheated on you leave him behind he will only cheat again dont make the mistake again dont take him back.
2006-09-08 09:52:07 · answer #10 · answered by laferla66 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋