ibroke up with him last night cause he said "i dont feel i care about u like before" i felt so sad so eventually i said good luck and bye then hung up and turned off my cell and my msg reciever,but i feel sad,should i answer him if he calls or txts me? will i get over him?
2006-09-08 09:46:33 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
In time you will get over him! It wasn't meant to be. Of course you will be sad, but eat some good junk food, cry your eyes out and watch some good movies/tv
In order to help wtih the healing, i wouldn't talk or respond to him. It will only make it harder for you.
Good Luck girl. You will be alright, I promise. We all go thru it!!!
2006-09-08 09:49:10 · answer #1 · answered by cmp8423 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I know almost exactly what you felt. I was involved with someone about 3 years ago. I was 16 and the other person was about 12 when things turned into something more. [[ I know what people will think, this was a total bs relationship]] But i can't explain it, only if i explained in person, but that would take a long time..but it was like whenever we looked in to each other's eyes, we could just stare for forever. Everytime we touched, i had to take a big deep breath. My heart races and my breathing slows down.]] It was never confirmed any sort of relationship, but i think i fell almost head over heels in love. I still love the person to this very day. I've never wanted anything but the best for the person. We were really "attached," for almost a year, almost hanging out everyday, because we were neighbors. It was an unexpected relationship, but we both just went with it. In the end, I had to put myself first even though I loved the person with all my heart, to the point where i my heart ached at the thought of leaving or being without them. I left and ignored the person for almost a year because i thought i could block out the pain. The person couldn't seem to understand some of what i felt, like the deeper side of me. It was all physical ish as well. We were really intimate, nothing sexual though. Just holding hands, touchy, hugs and what not. i can't go into to much because then this would take up SOO much space. lol [[ some people said what i felt THEN, might not have been love, because I was young, but now that I'm 18 and a lot more mature and understand these feelings and more conscious and aware of myself and others, I do believe that i still Love and deeply care for the person.]] anyway, i basically did the "dumping," even though I ended up breaking my heart into a million pieces. I'm sorry for what happened. I know how much it can hurt. And I know I'll always love this person, because it too, was my first relationship.
2016-03-27 03:13:47 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only time will answer that question. But from past experience it does get better and you do get over that person. That is if you want to. If you keep holding onto the past and not let go then you will not be able to be happy. You have to learn to and want to let go to be happy. Your choice of course. Best wishes.
2006-09-08 09:49:27 · answer #3 · answered by mtv8r 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
keep yourself busy, let things cool down a bit, and then answer if you want to. But you know, if he doesn't care for you like before, why should you wait for him? I'm pretty sure you're worth so much more than what he deserves.
2006-09-08 09:51:35 · answer #4 · answered by AMBER D 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You will get over him if you let yourself get over him get busy keep busy be on the look out for other guys and soon you will find some one you like and feel good again.
2006-09-08 09:49:14 · answer #5 · answered by laferla66 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
what made him say something so stupid! move on girl! move on. don't let him hav u like a puppy crawling after him coz he knows u love him! but hey, the best thing i can say is to follow ur heart and not what ur mind tells u to do
2006-09-08 09:50:38 · answer #6 · answered by evanescent_eclipse 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't keep talking to him if he's just wasting your feelings...if he doesn't feel the same for you then try your best to just get over it
2006-09-08 09:55:42 · answer #7 · answered by KrIsTyN 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do not answer , and as soon as you start dating you will get over it
2006-09-08 09:48:32 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok why break with him call him back you need to talk to him
2006-09-08 09:50:00 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
http://www.kidshealth.org/teen/your_mind/relationships/broken_heart.html
2006-09-08 09:49:24 · answer #10 · answered by Cutie ♥ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋