I've liked him for about year now. We went to homecoming together last year..but are both shy and didn't do alot of talking...
So..its just sorta weird whenver I see him at school..
How can I get him out of my mind??
No matter how much I tell my self I don't like (have a crush on him) him anymore..I know deep down..I still really, really ,really do..
It probably won't work out..so I don't want to waste my time..
2006-09-08 09:42:29 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
don't say that till you try it... you never know what will happen... maybe he thinks the same thing... talk to him and let him know what you are thinking... and also how you feel... try another date and try not to be so shy about it... talking is very helpful..
2006-09-08 09:45:08 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl, the best way to get over a guy is to get a new one. You dont really have to date one just become friends with a hot guy and spend a lot of time with him. Trust me I had the same problem when I was with a guy for 4 years. For the first 3 months I just sat around all sad but then my friend told me to get with a new one. So I found a guy had a great time messin around and my problems were over.
2006-09-08 16:46:03 · answer #2 · answered by sweethonesty1699 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You must gather your thoughts and tell him if you are really that shy perhaps writting him a letter might work but remember that there will be a long period of waiting for a reponse I think that sucking it up and telling him how you feel is the only option Good Luck
2006-09-08 16:48:37 · answer #3 · answered by maddy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have a very similar problem but the truth is, if you really like a guy than it is extremely difficult to get him off your mind. But you can try to occupy yourself! Maybee go shopping with some friends and get a peticure! Go to a party you can find out about and maybee you will meet a guy who things will work better with! Good luck and I hope everything works out for you!!! : ) Smiles from me!
2006-09-08 16:47:34 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I were you, I would take a chance. If my mom had said that about my dad 25 years ago in High School, I wouldn't be here today (my parents were high school sweathearts). So take a chance on the guy, try it out. You never know what the future holds :)
2006-09-08 16:51:52 · answer #5 · answered by findandyoushallseek 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try to make that guy realize that you like him using non-verbal language. Then provoke him to show his feelings. But the best advice is become a really good friend and the more you'll know each other, the more comfortable you'll feel together
2006-09-08 16:53:12 · answer #6 · answered by zhinnka 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
umm.. this is difficult............but this worked for me. You have to do this, please trust me...call him and tell him that u were wondering if he could help u in your homework during lunch, meet, talk, discuss, and then say thanks and from there on u can atleast say hi and then you could ask him if you could help him when he needs u and so on. Before u know it you'll start a great relationship! Good Luck!
2006-09-08 16:52:14 · answer #7 · answered by Vanesa G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell him that you do really like him but you dont think things will work out....he might not understand but he will in time
2006-09-08 16:46:20 · answer #8 · answered by Meme RsMs 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go for a one night stand with a hot dude.
Get drunk have wild sex n get your brains ****** out by him.
Never meet him again.
Wallah!!! you got a ney guy to worry about.
2006-09-08 16:53:11 · answer #9 · answered by Lord Of Lust 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
is he unreachable? I dont think so...well if not then let him know that you want to spend some time with him! if he is taken then find some other guy that interests you and soon enough you will forget about him.
2006-09-08 16:45:36 · answer #10 · answered by Bistro 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋