Well I told her why don' t you tell them you don't like that and for them not to say bad stuff she says because they will tell the teacher and the teacher will give her time out, I told her well then you tell the teacher first and she said the teacher will give me time out to. What should I do with this situation should I tell her to tattle or tell the kids something?
2006-09-08 09:34:23 · 21 answers · asked by Pretty me :) 3 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Toddler & Preschooler
I am not playing any games with the schools these days I think you should have her tell the teacher and if she gets a timeout go sit in that class ( that's what you should do) but I would just go up there or call. Let the teacher know to keep an eye on what's going on with your child because your not one of the parents who don't care. Also it is important to teach your daughter to not dwell on words because people will be mean and talk about her to a certain extent all her life you know?
2006-09-08 09:46:57 · answer #1 · answered by klovecalistyle 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
at 4 already? talk to the teacher so they can tell the other parents. the other parents arent setting a good example and yes that does start in the home. Im sorry your baby is being picked on.
My son has mild autism and im always scared another parent will find out and make an awful comment. My son appears like any other child but I wonder how I will react if another parents finds out , well I dont care if they know but what if they said something ugly ? My son is only 2.5 yrs old so maybe at that age they dont make fun yet
Ill pray for you guys and hope it will work out.
2006-09-08 13:21:03 · answer #2 · answered by wilowdreams 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think you and your daughter need to sit down with the teacher and offer specifics as to what the problem is. You may find that your daughter is offering you just one side of the story hehe! Four year olds can be like that. However, I would never let teasing go unaddressed. You're her champion. You're her protector. At four, she's far too young to protect herself. Go in, talk with the teacher - both of you - and find out what's going on. Let the teacher know you will NOT stand for ANY abuse toward your child. Let your daughter see you be a hero ;) Good luck. I know how painful it is to see your child hurting. But here you can actually help.
2006-09-08 13:09:23 · answer #3 · answered by tagi_65 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh that is the saddest i have ever heard.. Its a bit strange that the teacher has not noticed this... i think as a teacher she needs to make all the kids in her class feel equal.. I wud suggest a visit to the school and a word with the teacher. Now on the other hand you need to tell your child how special she is.. tell her everyday that way what the other kids say will not penetrate cos she will no what to say to them.. "My mommy says i am special." i also think your daughter is very very special that is why the other kids pay so much attention to her..
2006-09-08 11:46:35 · answer #4 · answered by tamrastic 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I would have a serious talk with that teacher. Sounds like time out is her response to everything! Your little girl should not have to go to school every day and feel bad about how she is treated. I have worked in a preschool as a lead teacher for over ten years and yes we try to promote "use your words with friends", but there comes a time that you have to intervene if this is not working.
2006-09-08 11:48:43 · answer #5 · answered by **KELLEY** 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You should talk to the teacher because the teacher is not going to take it seriously coming from your child. My daughter is also in pre-school and she told me that this boy was mean to her.
So I went up to the school and I spoke to the teacher about it and I also saw his mother and I told her that he's being rude to my daughter and he should be nice to her the same way she should be nice to him. His mother did have a little attitude and say kids will be kids. I told her that if my child is coming home complaining to me about a specific kid that keeps picking on her then, as a mother it is my responsibilty to make things right... I know that children are children however, kids could be really rude to each other and it is unexceptable.
I do not want my daughter to be mean to anyone and it is my job to make sure that she is respecful towards everyone... (Good Luck)...
2006-09-08 10:31:43 · answer #6 · answered by Vicky 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You need to contact her preschool and alert them to the situation. If they still do nothing about it or say that they cannot catch the kids saying these things, then that is not the preschool for her. It is a form of bullying and should in no way be tolerated. If kids are allowed to behave like that now, just think what they will be like in 5 or 6 years. Be her advocate. She is to young to understand and speak for herself so it's up to you. Let them know whats going on and how you feel about it. Good Luck!
2006-09-08 09:43:30 · answer #7 · answered by Yvonne D 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Why don't you try speaking with her teacher about the situation. I don't know how it is in pre-school, but I do know from experience, if a child speaks up (in grade school) to defend himself against a bully, the bully tells the teacher a big lie, and they both end up getting the same punishment. UNFAIR, but true in so many cases. If it happens again, go straight to the teacher.
2006-09-08 09:41:19 · answer #8 · answered by granny 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i no what shes going though im 11 and and whin i was 8 i had the same problom i told the teacher and got to stand in the corner
but i think you should tell the teacher yourself
p.s any 1 who saw the quesstions for a 2 year old im tht woman's neice
2006-09-08 10:41:44 · answer #9 · answered by threescompantgirl 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You should have a conference with her teacher. Let her know what's going on and if she doesn't respond to it... Let her boss know about the situation and that she not doing her job like a normal teacher would do. You don't punish one child and not the others. It's wrong. Let her know that you are very concerned about this.
2006-09-08 09:41:49 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋