im 25 years old i still live at home with my parents b/c i just finished school and new job starts mid october. I just found out my bf had self -cut himself recently. i got the impression he wanted me to just stay over his house so i can just be with him. I wanted too so badly but i my parents gave me such bullshit about sleeping over his house. I think its pathetic that im 25 and not allowed to sleep over my own bf's house. My bf dosn't understand it either. Now this weekend, my parents are going to be away, so i have opportunity to stay over with him, but now he is just telling me he just wants to meet up for only for dinner, but i feel compelled to sleep over his place now that i have the opportunity. Im upset because today he seemed he just wanted to have dinner with me and thats it. I really want to spend my time with him as i only see once a week. Last week, we were intimate and he wanted to talk, but then he got distracted and told me he couldnt tell me yet...i wonder
2006-09-08 09:30:53 · 4 answers · asked by hersheybar99 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Last weekend he was like Im so lucky ur so beautiful, then a few mins later he said he wanted to talk, right after he went to his computer and got distracted and i asked if he was done and he said "what we can't talk, u just want to use me for sex". So i said "we can talk" but then he was like "ur body is too perfect right now, i can't talk right now. So i don't know what he wanted to talk to me about at that moment. i was wondering if it was related to him being depressed. I don't know why he said the "use for sex" part because that is so not true. I care deeply for him and do many other things with him other than sex. i gave him the opportunity to talk, but then he didn't take it and began to kiss me and stuff
2006-09-08 09:35:05 · update #1
SOunds like he has some problems if he self cut himself. You might not want to get into a relationship like that. You don't know what he would do.. He cut himself, he may have mental issues and might hurt you. you need to look after your safety number one and if you should decide to stay with him what might happen. Something you really need to think about!
2006-09-08 09:35:26 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are 25 years old! Why does it matter if your folks are giving you ****! You are an adult and you can make those desicions for yourself. Believe me, you know if you start getting frisky you will be able to spend the night at his place, especially if you get things going late into the night.
2006-09-08 16:36:38 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it could be that he just cant deal with the fact that your parents dictate your movements, girl, no wait , woman, you are 25 and can sleep where ever you want. I think u have to have a talk with your parents and them your bf
i dont know about that last part, just wait till hes able to commuincate with you
2006-09-08 16:35:38 · answer #3 · answered by SHE HATE ME 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
make him happy he seems to be depressed have sex wit him bring him over to yur houseflash him he ll never cut himself again
2006-09-08 16:38:44 · answer #4 · answered by jeffyboi77 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋