I've been seeing someone for about 6 years and have been somewhat non-commital. She is now blowing me off. Does that mean it over and should I forget about her? Every time I talk to her she still sounds like she loves me but she is being extremely flaky. All of a sudden its really hard to get a hold of her and very difficult for us to get together. May I should call it quits?
2006-09-08 09:24:27 · 14 answers · asked by X 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
When u do finally get a hold of her ask her what she wants and whats going on with her! Maybe this is her way of saying she wants commitment or she gone, maybe she just wants space. Just don't dump her before u find out whats goingg on with her. Be a man a talk maybe I'll learn she just goin threw a hard time right now. Good luck!
2006-09-08 09:30:40 · answer #1 · answered by MELISSA 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmmm... 6 years is a long time. If she is flaking on you so much. Dont call her anymore at all.. wait for her to call you and then when she asks you HEY WHATS UP... ask her the same thing... WHATS UP WITH US? Then she will have to either tell you whats been going on as if you are her friend, or if you are still together. But play hard to get too... If she calls after a few days.. tell her your busy right now and to call you back later. Good luck.
2006-09-08 16:26:46 · answer #2 · answered by Angel Eve 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, I think you should call it quits. She has probably explored other options in the relationship department. Six years is a long time to be in a relationship and if she is being flaky I believe she is no longer interested. She probably does not know how to tell you its over. Go with your mind and not your heart on this one.
2006-09-08 16:31:42 · answer #3 · answered by kareful 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like she sees you as a person who is never going to commit to her, and that is not what she is looking for... maybe show her that you want to be committed and if she blows you off again, then call it quits.
2006-09-08 16:26:59 · answer #4 · answered by gitammy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
6 years and you've not committed yet? Maybe she's tired of waiting and wants to see someone else. Just ask her straight out.
2006-09-08 16:27:10 · answer #5 · answered by kathy p 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she may be seeing somelse or she may just not feel u anymore or she may be scared because she knows how long u have been in the realtionship and she may not be ready for what u or her have been talkin about in the furture like havin a baby or getting married
2006-09-08 16:27:39 · answer #6 · answered by Lexi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NOOOOOOOOOO dont maybe cuz shes afraid of a serious relationship or maybe shes afraid ur gonna dump her first or maybe if ur old shes afraid ur gonna ask her to marry you or she doesnt wanna have a any sexiual contact...either way talk to her ask her why
2006-09-08 16:30:05 · answer #7 · answered by Kelsey M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do you love her??? that's the question you should ask right now.... if you do then step up the relationship a litlle... take a big step ask her to move in with you or if she'll marry you...
2006-09-08 16:30:07 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well hello.. 6 years and non commital??? she's wasting her time... she gave you too much time already.. i would dump you too!
if you love her, do something about it! propose to her or something!
2006-09-08 16:27:12 · answer #9 · answered by green eyes 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like its time for a new model..
O' wait a minute that was the car Question ...
umm.. same answer...
2006-09-08 16:27:03 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋