ok so i started dating this guy and i think tonight we are going to have sex, is that too soon? because this one guy i knew it was 3 weeks. eek! and i dont want those answers that are like you should only have sex when you are married, and yada yada yada. it is toooooo late for that one!
2006-09-08 09:21:45 · 38 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
U make the choice when ur ready time means nothing its only how u two feel about each other and its when u decide months days weeks and hours really dont matter. Have fun!
2006-09-08 09:25:36 · answer #1 · answered by MELISSA 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's never too late to start waiting, but I'm not going to say any more on that.
I wouldn't put so much a time frame on it as a thing that needs to happen first, thing that needs to happen next, etc. That's what the waiting until marriage is, really, just a set of this before that. Some relationships click and progress quickly, and the couple is married in a month and has a kid in a year and twenty years later they're still on fire. Other relationships take longer to develop but slow and steady wins the race. Figure out what is important, and what's not, and what kind of guy you want, and what that kind of guy is going to look for in a girl, and how long that kind of guy is going to want to wait, and what that kind of guy will do before he expects to have sex with you.
2006-09-08 09:27:59 · answer #2 · answered by Sean J 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WAIT. From a man's point of view if he really care's about you he will not mind waiting only you can answer this question so wait a while longer if he is still around it will be worth the wait and if he is not then you avoided a big mistake and what is wrong with waiting till marriage a lot of women I know are waiting and sexual history does not mean you have to jump into the sack just because you are dating someone.
2006-09-08 09:32:21 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't understand the question... If sex some huge big deal to you, then you should wait for as long as you feel comfortable... I don't feel that sex is a big deal at all, it's kind of all part of a developing relationship, sometimes it happens sooner, sometimes later. It all depends on how YOU feel about it, not how people here feel about it. Many times I ended up having sex on the 1st date, and I never regretted it, it was all in good fun. Just try to make good choices for yourself, is all.
2006-09-08 09:25:59 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
on the contrary..its not too late. you dont have to continue to have sex just cause you did once. BUT thats not your lifestyle so no worries about my answer being biased:
yes 4 months is too soon. at 4 months i had not even had a makeout session with my fiance. we had kissed and such. but not "made out" so to speak. do you even know this boy well enough to have sex with him? do you know how many sexual partners he has had? why did those relationships not work? these are all valid questions both of you should know before having sex--or even truly considering it for that matter
and thats just smart--and safe now a days
2006-09-08 09:25:09 · answer #5 · answered by TheMaverick.The Artist 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
How old are you? When you are old enough to accept the responsibility of sex, then it doesn't matter how long you wait. If you are not old enough to accept responsibility for the consequences than I would be hesitant to move to the next level. Stretch mark don't go away, neither do kids.
2006-09-08 09:26:19 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think four months is too soon to have sex with someone. I was only with my boyfriend two months when we had sex. Do what is right for you. If you want to have sex with him then have sex with him. Good Luck!
2006-09-08 09:25:38 · answer #7 · answered by Michelle 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say if you like the guy, 4 months is not too soon. Go for it...just make sure it is protected sex!
2006-09-08 09:23:45 · answer #8 · answered by BG 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Okay its fine go on have sex, but Just try it my way to have someone and decide that you are only sex partners so he goes his way and you go your way but you must meet occassionally for sex, thats how I do it, because I don't have time a full time nor sort time relationship, until you meet that special person...
2006-09-08 09:28:56 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i say from personal experience dont give him the coochi why spoil things with sex!! if you think this guy is the one than why have sex you will have plenty of time to have sex when you are married but if not he will be one less dic k that you need to worry about and i mean one less sex partner!!!
2006-09-08 09:27:48 · answer #10 · answered by notyochic 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋