I've been single for 4 years and i'm getting lonley . I don't go out to clubs that much. I work and go home to my kids. I feel like i'm going crazy. I know i need time for my self but my kids are my life. I miss all the fun i us to have. I just can't find a good man.
2006-09-08 08:38:25 · 26 answers · asked by MICHELLE T 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Unfortunately finding a good relationship is hard work and keeping one is even harder. You are doing the right thing in making your kids your top priority and you deserve a man who respects that. While doing the whole internet singles ad thing will draw in a lot of idiots, it can also help you to find a good man. When I was single, I dated several single moms and I always respected their relationship with their kids and tried to figure out how to get to know the mother and her kids both. Look for guys like that who care about the whole package you have to offer. Remember, you have to kiss a lot of frogs to find your prince.
2006-09-08 08:50:07 · answer #1 · answered by rkrell 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's time you asked family or friends to watch the kids one or two times a month. If you do not get out soon you may explode ;-)
Really, your never going to find a man until you expose yourself. I'm sorry that your lonely but you might try Friend Finders and maybe start talking with someone on line maybe you could then arrange a date. Good Luck
2006-09-08 08:47:01 · answer #2 · answered by loser 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I myself am a single father. Have been for some time. I've dated a bit, did this, that. Haven't been able to hook up with a woman I feel is the right one on a permanent basis yet. I do believe though that I will. Life always has a way of sorting itself out. You've had this time to know who you are, where you want to go, and the type of person you want to get there with. So, don't sweat it too bad right now, when it happens, you're already one up on picking who that is. :)
2006-09-08 08:48:13 · answer #3 · answered by the traveling mage 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey,
I am right there with you. You have to make time for yourself. If you dont you will go crazy. I am not sure of your money situation. But what I do is save up money and once every other month. I go out and just have a day for me. It helps me feel better cause believe me conversating with a 6 year old all the time can be draining.
Good Luck.
2006-09-08 08:43:24 · answer #4 · answered by ga_peach207 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You must get out and about to be seen! Not just to be spotted for a piece of mind. I am sure you can find someone to watch the kids for a few hours, while you just take a break. The only man that can find you at your home is a delivery guy, mailman, or the UPS guy!
2006-09-08 08:43:19 · answer #5 · answered by M D 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hire a babysitter for a night every couple of weekends. Go with your girls out on the town. Be patient. Have fun and be yourself.. eventually you will find yourself a good man. GOOD LUCK!!
2006-09-08 08:40:42 · answer #6 · answered by ashley65@sbcglobal.net 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You might have to wait until your older because men your age don't really want other men's kids. Maybe you could hook up with your first husband and make it work this time. From your letter it doesn't sound like you are the type most good men are looking for.
2006-09-08 09:02:45 · answer #7 · answered by lily 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
this sounds odd but try going to a church...or getting back into one if that is the case. not just for the man. but let it flow. its how my grandpa met my grandma...he was 21 she was 17... (times were different then i suppose) and theyre happily married with 4 kids
2006-09-08 08:41:31 · answer #8 · answered by TheMaverick.The Artist 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are we twins or what??? I have a two year old daughter and I haven't dated in two years. I really do want to have a nice relationship but I've been meeting creeps. What gives?
I'm thinking about trying eharmony.com.
2006-09-08 10:00:40 · answer #9 · answered by treasures320 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Join eHarmony.com or true.com or Yahoo Personals. That way you can chat online, email back and forth, and get a feeling for whether or not the guy is a decent man.
2006-09-08 08:46:39 · answer #10 · answered by barter256 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋