This 18 year old in my neighboorhood came up to me when I was walking down the street and said I was sexy and asked me if I wanted to go out on a date. I said I would think about it. I'm 14 should I go?
2006-09-08 08:22:43 · 40 answers · asked by Katie 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Absolutely not .. stick with boys your own age
Hugs from a Loving Mom to a Brilliant, as well as beautiful 8 year old Jared and Our Angel, Zachary (taken to soon but who will always remain in our heart) ~ Mel
2006-09-08 08:25:33 · answer #1 · answered by jaredsmommy2004 6 · 2⤊ 2⤋
Generally, no. The 18-year-old may have different expectations from a dating relationship than you might have. It's better to stay with people who are in the same social circumstances (i.e. go to the same school as you), at your age.
Some day you will have an age-appropriate boyfriend. It's normal. When you do, though, don't neglect the rest of your life -- your schoolwork, family, other friends, hobbies. Balance is good.
Be sure to show your question, and the answers you receive, to your mom. Believe it or not, she was fourteen once. Good luck.
2006-09-08 08:31:08 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
No way on earth. If he is talking about you being sexy with you being that young, then he is only after some sex. And he is figuring the only outlet he has since you live on his street if he doesn't have a gf right now. Tell him no, with a group of your friends or just invite him over when your parents are home and still tell him no.
2006-09-08 08:54:41 · answer #3 · answered by Bloody Kisses 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Darling I dont know where you are but here in Georgia kids 18 get arrested everyday cause he is considered an adult. He is trying to get into your pants plain and simple and thinks that since girls his own age dont want anything to do with him he goes down. Dont walk Run from this guy. No offense to you at all but a normal 18 year old guy would have nothing to do with a 14 year old.
Good Luck
2006-09-08 08:28:27 · answer #4 · answered by ga_peach207 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
4 years aren't that much but the pro is u r 14 years old ur young he is 18 in a very critical age he need sex only sex so u should think about it 100 time before taking this decision so be careful
and from my point of view don't do it :)
2006-09-08 08:31:07 · answer #5 · answered by Dr.Tee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, he is a petaphile a freek some one who wants to take advantige of a yung girl
not only would it be wrong but he can go to jail for it, date people your own age, you will have more fun, and you wont be trying to live up to somone els's axspectation's and end up doing somthing you might regret later
2006-09-08 08:31:02 · answer #6 · answered by ibpat38 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I recently advised my cousin (14) on a similar matter (17). At first I thought: Wow, he's like my age. Then, I reconsidered it and said: But why not?
My opinion is: you should go out with him. Be cautious, though. Not all boys at this age think necessarily of how to make love with younger girls, but a lot of them are more emotionally mature and may have more experiences in relationships than you. Just try to be yourself, and don't do things you normally wouldn't. Just be your usual self. That's pretty cool.
2006-09-08 08:30:03 · answer #7 · answered by Angelique V 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
If you do decide to go, make it a group thing just to be safe. It's already odd that an 18 yr old is telling you (a 14 yr old) that you're sexy. Something about that just seems wrong already.
Be careful.
2006-09-08 08:25:49 · answer #8 · answered by cotton_candie25 2 · 1⤊ 2⤋
No. He will get in trouble.
Of course asking a 14 year old out, he probably deserves all the trouble that comes of it. So yeah, go for it.
2006-09-08 08:28:45 · answer #9 · answered by BlueChimera 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
First does he know that you are 14? Second, do you know this guy at all? And third... Talk to your parents about it. If they agree that its ok.. then well its ok. But if not, just wait until later. There is plenty of time to date older men but right now honey your just too young. Good Luck.
2006-09-08 08:29:51 · answer #10 · answered by ashley65@sbcglobal.net 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋