I been celibate for 4 years will be 5 years in Nov.
2006-09-08 08:16:55 · 24 answers · asked by tammi b 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'm 23 now but lost my virginity at 18 it wasn't worth it. I didn't decide on being celibate until Nov. 15 2001. I last had sex Oct. 12 2001. Sex didn't really impress me. Or maybe it was the wrong guy. But, because I am a full time college undergraduate in my senior year I been celibate for this long. Every woman is different. Thats why I ask is it normal. It is to be I am celibate by circumstance not by choice.
2006-09-08 09:05:28 · update #1
it is to me
2006-09-08 09:06:12 · update #2
Yes it is normal and its yours decision alone how long you plan to be.
Being celibate has it positive points because you don't have to deal with unwanted pregnancies or sexual transmitted disease or worse a deadly sexually transmitted disease.
You don't have to worry about losing your dignity and respect to someone who might not value you but only want your body so being celibate is normal and positive.
You know how many people dying from Aids probably wish they had been celibate so celebrate it and be proud.
2006-09-08 08:20:47 · answer #1 · answered by words from the heart 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It is really up to you why you chose to be celibate. Whenever you have come to your conclusions about dating or whatever made you become celibate in the first place then you will then end your celibacy. But don't think its not normal to be into discovering what you are about. No need to rush things.
2006-09-08 09:03:23 · answer #2 · answered by Bloody Kisses 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
celibacy is a beautiful thing, i myself have practiced celibacy for some time and i notice the diffrence in relationships i have with the opposite sex opposed to when i was having sex. the men you date when your celibate have different reactons to your decision and the ones who only want to sleep with you leave right away once they realize they are not getting any and then tere are some who will play like they can deal with it until they realize you are not giving in. but that is how you weed out the good guys from the bad. the one who will stay around and love your for who you are instead of what you got going on between your legs is the man who can accept your decision and stick around with you until you decide your ready and there is not expiration date on that
2006-09-08 08:46:57 · answer #3 · answered by kamieshac99 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course its normal. THe longest I went was almost 4 years. It sounds like a long time but it really didn't feel like 4 years. Sex isn't everything and not everyone should be doing it so don't worry about it. When your ready and meet that someone to be ready with...you will get it on. In your own time!
2006-09-08 08:21:41 · answer #4 · answered by Mean Carleen 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Been a celibate for 4 years? so you are 4 years old.
2006-09-08 08:21:31 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
shall we get the Hadith concern out of ways first. Muhammad did no longer face any criminal cases on homosexuality as a non secular and governmental chief, the ruling approximately gay intercourse became into derived *after* Muhammad’s dying. Mohamed El-Moctar El-Shinqiti, a as much as date Mauritanian pupil, has argued [a] no criminal punishment is declared in the Qur'an for homosexuality...[b] it is no longer reported that Prophet Muhammad has punished somebody for committing homosexuality...[c] there is no actual hadith reported from the Prophet prescribing a punishment for the homosexuals..." He argues that the two hadiths on stoning and killing homosexuals are vulnerable: Hadith pupils including Al-Bukhari, Yahya ibn Ma`in, An-Nasa'i, Ibn Hazm, Al-Tirmidhi, and others impugned the two hadiths. Abu Bakr Al-Jassas (d. 981 advert/370 AH) argued that the hadiths on killing homosexuals "are actually not sturdy by making use of any skill, and no criminal punishment may well be prescribed in accordance with them. Secondly: the Qu'ran. the main important sins that the human beings of Lut committed have been lust, rape, and adultery. whether you notice homosexuality as lust or love is fullyyt as much as the guy's interpretations. The Qu'ran purely mentions it as quickly as right here; yet, this is hid with different sins additionally so it does leave room for extra interpretation. Ahmad, homosexuality isn't all approximately intercourse. it is the place YOUR critiques are available.
2016-10-14 11:29:34 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
until that guy comes around to sweep you off your feet! you just have to marry him first. I've been celibate for 20 years and I'm 20!
2006-09-08 08:21:49 · answer #7 · answered by ShaneA 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing wrong with that. Just wait until you find the right person, marriage is over rated and seems to run relationships now because people bail out when times are hard.
2006-09-08 08:20:51 · answer #8 · answered by YAHOO SUCKS ASS 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Depends - how old are you, do you date any and do you want to be celibate?
2006-09-08 08:19:03 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Good for you that is so wonderful you have waited all this time continue to wait until you find the one that you know is right for you don't settle for anyone
2006-09-08 08:19:24 · answer #10 · answered by tpchick22 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋