I've been together with my boyfriend for several years and we used to be really intimate without losing my virginity. Last year he had to move to another city for work, he came once a month and we never broke up. Now that he is back, I am having trouble being so intimate with him. I am sure that he has noticed it but he hasn't said anything. Is it normal to feel this way?
2006-09-08 08:04:50 · 9 answers · asked by Amy H 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I would think so. I mean you guys probably spent all your time together before he went away to another job. And even though he came back for visits and stuff, that same closeness isn't there anymore. So now that he is back, I say try rekindling that intimacy again. Cuz the distance totally strained your bond for a time there.
2006-09-08 08:09:36 · answer #1 · answered by Bloody Kisses 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YEP. You have both changed, and so I'm sure you have noticed it. Take the time to get to know the new him, and figure out how you really feel about him, you sound like you have doubts if you do, that's OK too. YES you are normal.
2006-09-08 15:10:49 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its normal for it to feel werid ,at first. but if u cant go bac to being intimate after spending time together again then u should really go bac n evulate how u feel about him
2006-09-08 15:11:20 · answer #3 · answered by Miss k 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just move slowly, it has been a while. It is normal to feel unsure.Just talk to him. Communication is always the key.
2006-09-08 15:11:18 · answer #4 · answered by ann.natalie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely , he's been gone for a year. just take things one day at a time :)
2006-09-08 15:07:35 · answer #5 · answered by ridingthestorm_out 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes, just take it step by step .. By that time you willf all in love with him again
2006-09-08 15:09:59 · answer #6 · answered by wsfys1314 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yea what she said, talk about this matter with him ^^ good luck
2006-09-08 15:09:49 · answer #7 · answered by jlnunez06 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes, it is normal,nd you should talk about it with him.
2006-09-08 15:09:03 · answer #8 · answered by linrod 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe
2006-09-08 15:07:15 · answer #9 · answered by ♥beautyfly♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋