I like this guy and we have only really had contact on the phone via text messages, I don't really like texting someone in this situation, but I think he's nervous so I am going along with it for his sake. Anyway when I have sent him messages sometimes he will reply and other times he won't, but I have a habit of constantly sending him messages because I am worried he's gone off me. Do you think he seems like he wants to take things slow, or do you think I am being messed around. He also said he was not the sort of person who makes snap decisions, so should I just leave it with him to contact me.
Please help I don't know what to do, yet I really lke him. Sorry if this is a stupid message but I wanted someone else's opinion
2006-09-08 08:03:56 · 21 answers · asked by ceecee 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you are only talking on the phone, how do you know you like him? And if he liked you as much as you like him he would have that phone attached to his ear.
Sounds to me like you need to date someone in real life, not on the phone.
2006-09-08 08:06:30 · answer #1 · answered by sour_apple 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Personally, I think that he is playing games b/c if a person really likes you then they are going to do everything to show you including calling you on the phone if that's what it takes. He may not be as interested in you as you are him and he may not know how to tell you b/c he my not want to hurt your feelings. If you ask him the simple question "where do you see this going" if he gives you a lame answer I would go about my business and find someone who is really interested in pursuing a real relationship. Life is not guaranteed and nobody has time for cat and mouse games, personally I'd be finish playing with the ball of yarn.
2006-09-08 15:14:39 · answer #2 · answered by Ms. Hot Chocolate 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I don't think he is messing around or any of that. I just think he wants to take things slow and think about what he wants from the "relationship". If he keeps on doing it then i would go ahead and ask him if he just wants to be friends or does he want to be more. It never hurts to ask, because he could have the same feelings as you! There is nothing wrong with texting your feelings to him either if you are to shy to tell him straight up. But i wish you luck!
2006-09-08 15:08:03 · answer #3 · answered by Shooting Star 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont think you're giving him a chance to show you if he likes you or not. He might be texting you cus he does or he might be texting you cus you are harrassing him slightly.
The only way to find the answer is to stop texting him. Wait till he replies then leave it a long while before texting back. He sounds like he at least liked you in the beginning.
If he starts to think you're getting fed up of doing all the chasing he might decide to take the lead.
2006-09-08 15:12:23 · answer #4 · answered by Wicked Top. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
One important thing to learn about men is they always want what they can't have... So no more texts to him and make sure he knows or sees you having a great time. If he sends you a text dont reply for a day or so...This never fails!
2006-09-08 16:05:31 · answer #5 · answered by Jackie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really like him, make time to actually see him. Go to a movie, have lunch, something; I think any guy will eventually become uninterested when the only talking you do is on a cell phone. So basically if he doesnt want to go anywhere with you, or he seems uninterested when your with him I would move on.
good luck
2006-09-08 15:08:51 · answer #6 · answered by indrul1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think I understand what you're talking about.
You met someone online and they talk to you only via phone t ext?
or you randomly texted someone and decided you like the person.
You should just go out and find a real human being
2006-09-08 15:08:29 · answer #7 · answered by silver butterfly 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can't believe it! I'm in exactly the same situation as you!! I'm so glad you sent this question, cos I was gonna ask you guys today!
So reading from the helpful answers, have given me a bit of hope. All I will do now is to enjoy my life with friends etc.. and if he doesn't get back to me, then its his loss!
Good luck to you girl! maybe we could email each other one day! and see what happened.. :) x
2006-09-08 16:25:38 · answer #8 · answered by scorpion queen 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You say you have never met? I would be VERY wary of taking this any further, especially if, as you suggest, he seems to be acting 'cagey'(?). If you or he suggest a meeting, make sure you do this(if you must), in a very public place with people and friends you know. You never know. You've seen the news, just be safe.
2006-09-08 15:13:35 · answer #9 · answered by Moorglademover 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just feel it out. You may be more anxious than he is, but if it's meant to be then he'll come around. Just be patient and, more importantly, BE YOURSELF! If it isn't like you to get all worked up over a guy and be over exertive, then back off a little. Let him get to know you at his pace and good things will surely come.
2006-09-08 15:07:08 · answer #10 · answered by Cameron G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋