Is it ok for a (girl) best friend to sit on her guy best friend's lap, and for them to hug and stuff? If she doesnt have a bf.
2006-09-08 07:58:48 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
oh, nd please give reasons for your answers.
2006-09-08 08:00:44 · update #1
yes if it is innocent and one of them isn't thinking other things. two people can be plutonically affectionate like that.
2006-09-08 08:07:16 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she doesn't have a boyfriend it may be ok, but if you guys are best friends and want to keep it that way then that is not ok. She may send the wrong signal or he may pick up the wrong signal.Be careful with girl/boy friendships. Once feelings get involved, it could tear away from the value of the friendship.
2006-09-08 15:02:29 · answer #2 · answered by menyauna s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think its OK, as long as it's not inappropriate. (you know what I mean) -If they are both single there is nothing to stop them, however you have to keep in mind how this looks to others. People might get the wrong impression, and that can be important if one of them is trying to start something with someone else.
2006-09-08 15:01:57 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is just a phase she is going through so dont worry about it now she need love and care cuz she dont have a bf in her life so she tried to find the love and caring from her nearest place and this is u so dont worry give her all the care she need but in the friendship way and dont worry she will understand this
take care and enjoy ur life :)
2006-09-08 15:10:55 · answer #4 · answered by Dr.Tee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No it isnt ok. You run the risk of losing the friendship over having the wrong expectations.
2006-09-08 15:04:32 · answer #5 · answered by Joe K 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No.. trust me.. i've done that.. It ends REALLY bad.. I mean you can hug and stuff but not to much and dont sit on his lap.. EVER!!
2006-09-08 15:00:26 · answer #6 · answered by ... 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes, i think its totally okay
guy best friends are like brothers
if you can do it with you brother, you can do it with your friend
i sit on my brother all the time, of course i sit on his chest, which makes it hard for him to breath, but hey, i love him, he understands!!
i say be affectionate to as many people as you can - the world needs more hugs!!
2006-09-08 15:02:49 · answer #7 · answered by punkrockprincess 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course not. She is obviously playing games with you to rile you up, your boyfriend is enjoying a free feel. Tell your bf to shape up or get lost. He let her do it.
2006-09-08 15:02:37 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ya
its ok even if she has a bf
ur just friends
i hug other guys when i have a bf
it doesnt matter
2006-09-08 15:01:11 · answer #9 · answered by whycantifly74 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes its completely alright. She is showing you that she wants to pursue something with you. Go ahead and ask her out if you don't have a girlfriend.
2006-09-08 15:06:55 · answer #10 · answered by The Plague 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋