i love him and everything but he like another girl and i didn't want to break up and i been sick and everthing so i have been acting funny but i told him that i was going to make it up to him so know we don't even talk as friends or anything because i always used to think it be me all the time but it don't be me it be him but i stil love him and i just can't let him go on me like that because he is in my heart and i have tried talking to him but he will not talk to me back whatshould i do please help me.
2006-09-08 07:56:17 · 24 answers · asked by shaquita t 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If he loves someone else why are you putting yourself through this?
If you arent getting the love in return why stay? Find someone who does appreciate you and love you back.
2006-09-08 07:58:18 · answer #1 · answered by sour_apple 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know how old you are...but when I was in high school I had the same thing happen to me. I had the same boyfriend my junior and senior year. The junior year was good but that relationship ruined my senior year. I knew he liked another girl and he kept going back and forth between us. Now looking back, I wish I would have had some sense knocked into me. He was getting exactly what he wanted and took both of us girls for the ride. Boys arn't worth it, especially when you are in high school. If I could go back I would of banned boys and enjoyed being with my friends and enjoying my youth! Don't let boys get you down! Good luck!
2006-09-08 08:02:48 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get a life girl... you are a human and not a doormat which get's walked over all the time... I bet there will be many more people who love you... and they will love you more than even how much you loved this guy... It's good that you are loyal to someone but that does not mean that you take all cra* from this person too... And even if eventually that person makes himself fall in love with you, it wont be good since you will destroy three lives instead, urs, ur b/fs and the other person he likes too... i think you should move on.
2006-09-08 08:01:31 · answer #3 · answered by Gagandeep 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
to be honest with you. i was in tht exact same situation a week ago.
we dated for 2 years. broke up, he used another girl to get over me, but never did, came bac. stole my heart. broke my heart. made it up to me. broke my heart again.
n im finally getting the stamina to just let it go.
sometimes they'll take ur heart, but then you have to just prove to be the bigger person in the end. it was a load of **** when i heard it frm a friend tht i needed to do this. but now that i'm starting to just let it go, my life has been better.
i honestly think that you should just try as hard as u can to let go and stop wanting to talk to him. what really makes life difficult is the fact that you feel like you cant do anything about it. but u really can.
i have faith in the fact that u can let go and learn to love smone else. because i felt like he was the only one i could love, and who could love me.
girl i want u to think abt this for a second. do u honestly want to b with a man who says he loves u, then leaves u for another woman? :(
2006-09-08 08:05:40 · answer #4 · answered by kissmysta 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop huting yourself. You are doing it to yourself. It's no longer a two way relationship. The sooner you realize it the sooner you'll get over him and will start feeling better.
It's going to hurt. I undertand, since you were not the one doing the breaking up but can't make or force people to love you.
Start hanging out with you friends and seek their support.
2006-09-08 08:05:34 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I comprehend this could desire to be heart breaking, yet perhaps he has a good reason? If I have been you i could attempt to confront him. do no longer beg him for him to return decrease back, only seek for for a proof a minimum of. you do no longer want to return with the aid of by way of fact the loopy/stalker ex. perhaps slap him slightly too for many excellent you on, then cutting you of. to assist save your innovations off the ruin up although, detect a pastime or attempt to touch some associates a have a ladies nighttime out style of subject. and concentration on college i assume. and that i could be greater desirable than happy that can assist you experience greater desirable C: Hugs xx ~ Melia
2017-01-05 09:19:19 · answer #6 · answered by russnak 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forget him. He's moved on and so should you. -Would you really want to be in a relationship with a person who is with you only because they feel sorry for you?
Move on! Live the single life!
2006-09-08 07:59:33 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
MOVE ON... The best thing you can do for your broken heart is to go out and hang with your friends, maybe go on a date with someone else, but move on girly... nothing you can do if he dont wanna be with you.
2006-09-08 07:58:33 · answer #8 · answered by Angel Eve 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
break something it always helps!!!
see i was in your place one time and i just moved on when i knew he was wanting me back causse he keeps calling and come sees me, i just thanks its good for him and don't want anything to do with him then you could always know were he is going to be and like bring a guy with you and like start making out with him in front of him...that always works...! goodluck!
2006-09-08 08:00:30 · answer #9 · answered by Krystle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best revenge to have on someone is to live well and not give him the satisfaction that you still like him.
2006-09-08 08:00:20 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋