met sweet guy- year and a half ago. Became good friends quick. Talked almost everyday. Chilled, watched movies. Would see him bout 2x a week when i would hit the clubs. He really liked me and we talked but me & bf were going through problems, almost broke up. Felt like it.we coulnt be more than frie Fell out of touch 4 like 3 months. He finally decided to call,had no real reason as 2 y he hadnt called. He was real apologetic,hewanted to meet up again.Ran into each other @ a club about 2 weeks l8r, after not having seen him for about 4-5 months. We talked 4 a min and before saying goodbye he kissed me,on lips. Totally unexpected since he pretty much stated he's back w/ ex and we couldnt chill like we used to. Yet he wanted me to go home w/ him. We never, NEVER did the deed, but were affectionate. I don't know what went wrong. We actually chilled 1x after seing him @ club and talked 1x after that and he disappeared, again.What went wrong?? he was laid back, im a lil outgoing
2006-09-08
07:49:57
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We mutually called each other. My # has changed since then. dont know if his # the same. felt like he played me. Havent talked to him since july. Dec my # changed but between jul-dec he didnt call. said I would hear from him. It thought we clicked & were good friends. Just dont get it. Got him out of my head but now he's back in it and its hard. I love my bf but.. he just doesnt have his stuff together and its been bout 7 years. All the people mentioned are age 22-25. what to do?? He crosses my mind alot. But i know i couldnt have a future w/ him. Theres a reason he hasnt called. He just couldnt tell me even when i asked. He said something about obligations. He had been split up w/ ex. They got back together. were hs sweethearts. But he claimed she loved him more than he cared for her. I mean he was cute, im very attractive. His ex was pretty also. Any guesses suggestions. this is so disturbing to me. Help and thanks. UPDATE... I found him on my space. sent note sayin would like to tlk
2006-09-08
07:54:21 ·
update #1
I told him i would like to have closure he at least owes me that considering how he went jekyl and hyde on me. He was last on my space on the 1st i sent the message on the 5th or 6th. Im a lil' nervous. He' still w/ the same girl. i dont want him but he just disappeared and i want to know why
2006-09-08
07:56:20 ·
update #2
CDRFISH U ARE IGNORANT. I AM A FEMALE. B/F = BOYFRIEND. THATS THE PROBLEM W/ THIS WORLD U DONT READ. ONLY SERIOUS ANSWERS PLEASE. NONE OF THAT BS. EVERYONE IS SUBJECT TO THEIR OWN OPINION BUT BS IS A WASTE OF MY TIME AND YOURS. thanks ;-P
2006-09-08
08:03:06 ·
update #3