Have a friend that is seeing someone who is really great and has fallen in love with her, she likes him, but doesn't find him attractive. Could she get pass this?
2006-09-08 07:46:29 · 27 answers · asked by nancy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
that's really hard. Basing on the friends that I've got, some of them could, others wouldn't. You always hear about arranged marriages, and the couples involved make them work, so I could see it that work similarly in that way. I think it really depends on what type of person she is and how much she would want the relationship to work. If she's just wanting some fun, then I could see her chasing after someone else when she gets bored of him, but if she's really serious about him, and loves his personality, I think they'd be fine, and she'd learn to love him for the way that he looks. Hope that makes sense.
2006-09-08 07:54:26 · answer #1 · answered by Hannah 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The outward appearance is not important as what a person does.
I have seen so many attractive men treat women so badly.
Have multiple affairs and leave the children and their family's in terrible condition. Never marry an attractive man. They are vain and shallow and will have multiple affairs. Most marriages that end the man is reasonably attractive. The women grow to hate them. Wouldn't it be better to grow to love him?
2006-09-08 14:52:17 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is a tough one because love is suppose to be blind, and you are suppose to look at someone on the inside for who they are and how they treat you and so on and so on, but I don't care what anyone says, all that is fine and good, but I think that there has to be some type of physical attraction between two people to make a go of it.........I mean really, if you consider yourself pretty nice looking, could you date or fall in love with someone who is complete gross to look at?...........I don't think so.........good luck to her
2006-09-08 14:52:45 · answer #3 · answered by dixiegirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
people are attractive in other ways not just on the outside. I would much rather a guy that is not that attractive and a good person. Then some hot guy that is a total jerk. Get over it. Get him to work on his body or cut hair different or tan. Improvement in any way is good.
2006-09-08 14:49:53 · answer #4 · answered by blessedwithlks 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think someone could fall in love with someone who isn't attractive its the person the personalality the kindness. Looks are every thing.
2006-09-08 14:55:34 · answer #5 · answered by kookie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Attractive or not attractive is subjective. However, if this particular girl doesn't feel even a little primal chemistry toward this particular guy, it's unlikely that the relationship will survive.
2006-09-08 15:06:13 · answer #6 · answered by Hemingway 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I rather have a unattractive somenone treating me like a queen then a attractive someone treating like ****!! the answer is Yes! you can
2006-09-08 14:51:17 · answer #7 · answered by guess 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
LOVE IS BLIND! cupid doesnt see whos hot or not love just happens from nowhere and "NOWHERE" is made up of 2 words "now" and "here" so love all u can right now u never know what will happen tomorrow!
2006-09-08 14:48:43 · answer #8 · answered by Angel to da rescue 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can over look a lot of things if the person treats me right and we get alone. Beauty fades with time.
2006-09-08 14:55:46 · answer #9 · answered by cdj514 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I could never fall in love with somone who i didn't find attractive, how could anyone?
2006-09-08 14:48:50 · answer #10 · answered by Mr. Lemons 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋