the 1st time you hang out ,will you think of her as being slutty and only a booty call.? the first time I hung out with this guy we talked for hours and then we made out, the 2nd night we hung out all he wanted to do was make out after we made out he left, it sucks casue I really like him and want him to b my bf
2006-09-08 07:46:22 · 18 answers · asked by goldieluxxx 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
no your not a slut it means that u really like this guy, but trust me its better if u pace yourself, once u give it up he will want it all the time!!
2006-09-08 09:37:49 · answer #1 · answered by stewiegrif27 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I made out with my girlfriend that first night I met her and we've been together for more than 18 months.
Here's a good way to see if he's only about the sex: plan a night that keeps the both of you in the public's eye - dinner, movies, mall, etc...that way you guys can't just start randomly making out without offending a ton of people. If he starts to get pissed that you aren't creating an enivonment more condusive to making out, then he is either wicked horny or just wants the sex.
2006-09-08 14:51:51 · answer #2 · answered by flyboop_2000 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Tell him you want to keep talking to him. Tell him you want to continue to learn about him. The sexual aspect is out of the bag, so the worst thing you can do is suddenly change that. If you cut off the physical intimacy he'll be pissed.
One thing you can do is to talk to him. If you think becoming physical so soon was a mistake, tell him, but do it gently. Stroke his ego, tell him that you enjoy making out with him, but you don't want to just be a booty call. If he likes you beyond just a sexual conquest, he should respond and be willing to spend non-sexual time with you.
2006-09-08 14:53:01 · answer #3 · answered by Michael 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A lot of guys would look at you as an easy score. Saying to themselves if we made out on the 1st date then I can get what I want and leave with no strings attached. In my personal opion I don't look at you like a slut or easy etc. Its what you wanted to do. But in order for you to get him to be your boyfriend you'll have to stop all of the making out etc. Tell him that you really like him and want to be in a relationship. If he agrees with that take it slow. I'll keep my fingers crossed for you. Good Luck.
2006-09-08 15:05:06 · answer #4 · answered by The Plague 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make sure that you make it clear to him that you want to take it slow and that your feelings for him haven't changed. If you suddenly want to stop the physical stuff he may think that you don't like him as much as you did in the beginning, which is not true. Make it as clear as glass that in order for you to like him even more you want to get to know who he is as a complete person, not just as a piece of man candy. If you two take it slower, it will make the physical rewards later in the relationship that much sweeter!
2006-09-08 14:50:23 · answer #5 · answered by clubhousemgr 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes. Well, that's the short answer. The best thing you can do is consider it a lesson learned and not be so quick to give it up the next time.
2006-09-08 14:58:26 · answer #6 · answered by Leroy 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I agree with The Key Master
2006-09-08 14:50:46 · answer #7 · answered by Pat 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
No not all guys think it is a booty call. However this one your describing does so be careful.
2006-09-08 14:57:19 · answer #8 · answered by omvg1 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You people are goofy. It doesn't really matter when you give it up. You think guys are going to act different if it takes them a while to get in your pants? They will alwyas be dogs, deal with it.
2006-09-08 14:51:48 · answer #9 · answered by ready4it45 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
What is the value of your selfworth. What did you expect. You gave him the impression about yourself and what you wanted.
Pray for forgiveness and start allover.
Good luck
2006-09-08 15:12:26 · answer #10 · answered by namski 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋