i am seeing this man who has more baggage than i own in purses. none the less i like him because he has a car (i really had to think about why i like him) but he is always trying to make me say please or beg him to give me a ride somewhere but he comes to my house, eats whatever he wants out of my refrigerator, leaves hsi dishes and clothes lying around, takes a nap and then leaves before he needs to be in the club before the admission fees goes up. He has been doing this to me for almost two months and i have tried to be patient and even expalin to him why this is making me so annoyed but it's like to talking to a brick wall, he just does not get it. at this point i am ready to server any friendship ties with him and walk away from the whole thing but i just need some advice or different perspectives thanks
2006-09-08 07:41:39 · 8 answers · asked by kamieshac99 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
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2006-09-08 07:44:55 · answer #1 · answered by amylr620 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely No. You need to continue to give him food and a place to sleep and even sex if he asks for it. After all, he is a man and males are superior to females in all things that matter.
If you disagree with that, figure it out on your own; it sounds like you're too young to be asking these questions anyways.
2006-09-08 14:49:54 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
This is a situation you brouhgt on yourself. This could have been stopped some two months ago. At this point you should walk away from this because it seems like a big mess.
2006-09-08 14:47:39 · answer #3 · answered by Tee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if the only reason you like him is because of the car
i say leave his a.s.s
neither of you are benefitting from the relationship
you have nothing to loose if you never see him again
there are lots of guys with cars who i'm sure you wont find as annoying
happy shopping!!!
2006-09-08 14:46:48 · answer #4 · answered by punkrockprincess 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you don't seem too picky if your only looking for a guy with a car.
well, if thats what you want their are plenty of guys with cars and no baggage. maybe look around more.
2006-09-08 14:45:58 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you feel ready to walk...what dif does it make what we say? If your THAT oblivious you can kindly send me $200 weekly until you really make up your mind hon.
2006-09-08 14:45:08 · answer #6 · answered by Mean Carleen 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i agree with the first girl...i also think it is HIM that needs to dump YOUR @SS!!!
2006-09-08 14:46:16 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
umm... u most def-i-nit-ly need to leave his sorry ***
2006-09-08 14:46:02 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋