I met this guy about a month ago and he is really nice and sweet. The thing is he isnt to experienced with kissing or sexual things. Does that make me a bad person because I'm questioning if I want to continue seeing him?
2006-09-08 07:41:27 · 13 answers · asked by y02 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
HAHAHA...I THOUGHT YOU WERE'NT EXPERIENCE FIRST WHEN I WAS TO ANSWER YOUR QUESTION....
HI I THINK HE SHOULD THE ONE ASKING QUESTION...AND NOT YOU.....YOU SHOULD BE HAPPY TO MEET SOMEONE LIKE THAT....NOW YOU SHOULD TELL HIM BEFORE CONTINUING WITH HIM.....
PERSONALLY ME THINK NO SEX BEFORE MARRIAGE....IF YOU CAN'T CONTROL GET MARRIED!!!
AND JUST I THINK THAT A VIRGIN IS MORE LOYAL,FAITHFUL,COMITTED....HE DOES'NT HAVE ANYONE TO COMPARE YOU WITH.....
AND ABOUT YOU BEING BAD PERSON!!...Hmmmmm....NOT BAD BUT IMMORAL AND FUNNY.....THATS FIRST OF ITS KIND I SAW ON YAHOO
2006-09-08 07:51:52 · answer #1 · answered by METICULOUS 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, it doesn't make you a bad person. Some people want their sex a certian way and its frustrating not to get it; especially for a woman.
However, you need to realize that maybe this guy just needs to get warmed up. For instance, when a couple first starts making love, I bet the two of them are not that great together until they start to figure out what each person likes, how fast/hard, etc.
You actually have a sort of advantage; you can train this guy to the way you want and he could become the best lover for you! If you have the patience and he has the stamina, I would give him a second chance and give him some pointers.
2006-09-08 14:46:40 · answer #2 · answered by flyboop_2000 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you know more than him why not teach, since you say he is nice and sweet. You can make him what you want him to be sexually. I wish you al the best.
2006-09-08 14:46:49 · answer #3 · answered by freeall_freeme 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i was in the same boat you are..i just asked myself the question do i love him and if so how much like enough to spend the rest of my life with? i realized i did, i wanted to marry him even tho' he was bad in bed. truly no one shoud know what thier mate is until marrige so it's really not fair to yourself. me and my "boyfriend" broke up and i moved on, but that is how i saw things when i was in the same place you are.
hope i can help. goodluck!
2006-09-08 14:49:16 · answer #4 · answered by Krystle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not at all... I think that's natural. But it really depends on how much you like the guy... is he younger than you are? Do you see a future? And why are you thinking about leaving him... is it because you don't think he can satisfy your need... i understand... but I think you really just need to think about what could be... how much this guy means to you and then make the decision.
2006-09-08 14:48:28 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
heh if I left a woman cause she was not experienced then shame on me. Teaching is very rewarding. Teach him to experiment and about what you like.
2006-09-08 14:50:04 · answer #6 · answered by omvg1 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well there is nothing wrong with this maybe he is like that coz some beliefs or something like that..but, if you like him why dont you teach him ..and be the first to express with him the passion .. he will thank you and love you for it ;-)
2006-09-08 14:47:23 · answer #7 · answered by Becky 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have a blank blackboard to write on and train to do that which makes you happy. Don't whine; get to work.
2006-09-08 14:48:22 · answer #8 · answered by acmeraven 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it depends if your just in this relationship for sex if you are then dump him b/c hes proably not and you'll just hurt him in the long run, but if you truly like him then make it work use toys teach him what you like and while your teaching him you'll learn yourself what he likes there for its better for both of you!!
2006-09-08 14:48:53 · answer #9 · answered by jamin_hot_body 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes, if you like him just teach him the ropes and at least you know he is not dirty.
"tell the girls you don't have clamidia because that **** is everywhere" -40 year old virgin quote
2006-09-08 14:49:11 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋