I have been dating my boyfriend for almost a year now. I am having doubts if I should break up with him because he doesn't seem he is very interested in me. He says he does, but I think I need to feel more loved. I don't know what to do, should I talke to him or wait if things might get better?
2006-09-08 07:38:35 · 17 answers · asked by Mandy B 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you have expressed your need to feel more loved and given him some ideas how he might do that and he has not responded, it won't get better. If you have not told him, talk with him -- he can't read your mind. If he responds, great. If not, you have all the info you need.
2006-09-08 07:41:08 · answer #1 · answered by jurydoc 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I can't tell you what decision to make but... If you decide to stay involved I wouldn't pressure him about it. That will end in doom. He already knows how you feel. If you wait it out and nothing changes after about a month then he is who he is and you should move on if you want something more. It doesn't mean that he is bad or you are bad at relationships it just means that you are different types of people. Why would anyone stay in a relationship with someone who is not a right match for them. Love is not the only thing that people need when in a relationship. After all... everyone perceives love in a different fashion. Good luck and God bless!
2006-09-08 07:45:01 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know what your expectations are when you say you want to feel more loved. However, assuming you are realistic in your expectations of what a man is likely to be able to offer, I suggest that you talk with him and tell him how you feel. If he makes an effort to step it up a bit, then stay. If you see no change after a reasonable period of time, stop wasting your time and move on.
2006-09-08 07:42:18 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't say how old you are. If you haven't date alot and have doubts then perhaps you need to end it. Talk to him tell him you don't feel loved and that if things don't change for the better then its best the two of you split.
2006-09-08 07:41:30 · answer #4 · answered by silver 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dating is shopping, if you try a pair of pants on that you liked at the store but, didn't feel or look right when you got home you get a refund right? Don't complicate your life further by hanging on to a pair of slacks that you are not comfortable with, there are slacks out there that will be the right fit. Go back to the store.
2006-09-08 07:48:56 · answer #5 · answered by Juble 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are feeling like this now, it is probably not going to get any better. I probably would not stick around. You can try talking to him first, see if there is any change, but if not leave. You deserve to find somebody who fill make you feel loved and happy.
2006-09-08 07:41:53 · answer #6 · answered by jam_psb 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My personal advice is to find a new boyfriend. I have been trying to change my husband for 19 years and he gives me "I'm set in my ways" speech. Find someone you like from the start.
2006-09-08 07:42:05 · answer #7 · answered by Valeria 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to him and tell him you need more affection. If he can't do it, he's not the right guy for you.
If you wait and say nothing, I can guarantee things will not change.
2006-09-08 07:41:27 · answer #8 · answered by Toga748 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A bird in hand is worth ten in the bush. Be wish and don't act foolishly.
2006-09-08 07:43:19 · answer #9 · answered by freeall_freeme 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to him. He may sense your uneasyness. He can't read your mind. If after you talk to him about it....by asking certain pointed questions, things remain the same...move on
2006-09-08 07:49:00 · answer #10 · answered by babe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋