Ok, so i live in an apt bldg with all men and me. LOL fun! anyway i hang out with them alot. every weekend. Well last weeknd my one neighbor and i slept together. Neither of us are looing for a relationship. I am 28 him 30 something. We both agree on having a "special friend" relationship. What i want to know is... what are the chances of us "hooking up" again? should i bring it up to him? if so how? i dont want to seem like some psycho stalker... our relationship has not changed at all since this happend. which is a good thing cuz i like hanging out with him. SHould i just wait for him to approach me again? UGh... i cant get this off of my mind
2006-09-08 07:37:30 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Ok so if you say go ahead and ask him.. how do i start the conversation.."hey baby want to do it again? LOL really... he has made some sly comments to me such as " next time i am gonna.... " so..
2006-09-08 07:44:21 · update #1
If you rally want to hook up again just keep talking to him. It will happen if he wants it to. Good luck.
2006-09-11 06:40:35 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask him over for a movie (not a porno and make sure it is not a chick flick) and drinks - he brings the pizza. Talk and share what you both expect - you already done it together once, so now set the boundries or rules - set up a code word so you two and talk about doing it while the other guys are around but do not know exactly what you mean.
2006-09-08 08:34:35 · answer #2 · answered by Wolf 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait and see what happens. If he doesn't approach you or mention it again, then it was a one-time thing and best to just remain friends. If he does approach you again, then you can decide whether to contine in a "friends with benefits" relationship or build on something for the future
2006-09-08 07:41:23 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Neither of your are looking...You both spoke of a special Friend arrangement...What more could you possibly want from a purely sexual arrangement. Did you really want an answer? Being in an apartment building with all men and just you, hmm, are you certain you didn`t just hook up with one of the gay swingers?
2006-09-08 07:54:15 · answer #4 · answered by todaysvicechocolate 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah wait for him to approach you so it doesn't look like you are wanting more. Act like normal and see if he brings it to you. That is what I would do. Don't worry yourself about wether or not you are supposed to make the first move again, that is for the guy. You not want to look lonely, needy, crazy, or desperate so just wait it out! Good luck!
2006-09-08 07:43:49 · answer #5 · answered by lovenstrength83 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Must have had a nice time. Just act normally and dont bring it up if you do JUST want to be a hook up. I wish I lived in your bldg.
2006-09-08 07:43:51 · answer #6 · answered by dirkdiggler9999 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Invite him over and clear the air. Friends with benefits can be complicated and you want to be sure you give each other space to have separate lives...other than that, I would say YES-he will want to hook up again soon.
2006-09-08 07:40:47 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Man.. Well was it good? If it was, then the relationship that you have with him and good sex is all you can ask for!! If you did however sleep with him once, most likely it will happen again.
Ten points!!
HBK
2006-09-08 07:41:49 · answer #8 · answered by Solja Boi 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell him you wanna do it again!! Good times, good times for sure!
2006-09-08 07:39:48 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If it was all that, just ask him "hey wanna, hokey pokey again?"
2006-09-08 07:41:09 · answer #10 · answered by crazy2have3kids 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋