Alright In a year from now i will soon be happily married to the man i love.
We have never had sex, and thats cool. We're saving ourselves till Marriage. But we have been talking about things that we are comfortable with trying etc.
Alright most of us all know, a majority of males fantasize about being with multiple women at once. My fiance of course has admitted this is a fantasy..but he would never act on it (unless I brought it up then i know he would agree lol).
But how many of you females out there would consider this? I personally am not for it but i'm just interested in how popular it is with females..and not just attempting to appease your partners.
And males, how many of you would actually agree becaues your partner REALLY wanted to and wasnt just appeasing you? would you dare try for another male after another female?
Im honestly just curious
2006-09-08 07:23:39 · 18 answers · asked by TheMaverick.The Artist 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Please note: i am not planning on doing this, NEITHER is my fiance. we were admitting things we had thought about...i was just curious of what others have thought of. I study psychology and enjoy understanding people as a whole..especially when married we would never dream of doing this!
2006-09-08 07:31:21 · update #1
Ok first of all yes it is a fantasy with all guys unless they are gay! women also have that same fantasy.. being with another woman is pleasurable in a way a man is not, its not a good idea to do this becuse it will cause issues. the man will get left out or will not have as much fun.unless he just likes to watch.
2006-09-08 07:27:45 · answer #1 · answered by jestergirl382003 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't be a part of it.
I think the whole "girl on girl action" is an over rated fantasy. I'm sure there are guys out there who do dream about it, and do become a participant, willingly.
But, if you are waiting until marriage to have sex, how can he skip right over to a threesome? Keep your integrity. Find out how serious he is about the whole thing. You might want to discuss this a little more with him and see his reaction when you say you don't want to do this.
2006-09-08 14:31:48 · answer #2 · answered by kids and cats 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Each to there own, but that would be like ask your bf for you to have him an another man, well you know it is better one on one anyway, knowing you could lose the one your in love with to someone else. What is done behind close doors between a man and a woman is sacried and should stay that way.
Well you ask for opions.
2006-09-08 14:30:14 · answer #3 · answered by barbara g 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have done this with one man and it didn't change much. Fortunately, we were only friends with benefits though! I would NEVER recommend bringing anyone into your sacred marriage bed!! If he really wants to experiment though, maybe get a doll...no feelings, no person, no problem!
Congrats on your wedding by the way!! :)
2006-09-08 14:27:40 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i have had lots of mmf 3sums and a mmmf when i was 15 cos i knew some rude disrespectful boys, since then Ive had a couple more mmf 3sums with an ex and a ffmm 4sum with a couple (I'm bi), I'm not a slag but have got into it by influences, I'm now 22 and married and planning to have a mmf 3sum with my hubby! its my fantasy to have a ffm 3sum with him but he says he wouldn't do it and i think i might get jealous!
2006-09-08 14:44:21 · answer #5 · answered by sasha 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've been asked this by a few people in my life time and I can honestly say it doesn't interest me in the slightest. I wouldn't do it to please my man and I would really hope the man I end up with (sadly single arent' I) I would hope he would not be interested in this either. I don't share well.
2006-09-08 14:34:46 · answer #6 · answered by ladylunamina 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are a virgin than any other girl you bring into bed with you and your man is gonna put you to shame when it comes to pleasing him. He probably won't even want you anymore and will constantly be thinking about the other woman
2006-09-08 14:30:34 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she was bi I could live with it maybe a 3 some with another woman but not a man cause I'm not bi. Not likely though.
2006-09-08 14:34:03 · answer #8 · answered by omvg1 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would never want another female. My Fiance is more then enough for me. If i could ever think that then it would mean i would be losing my love for her and im not. IM sorry if this doesnt help any. But if its something you dont want to do dont do it to make him happy. If hes not happy with just you, you would need to think deep about whats important to you both.
2006-09-08 14:29:31 · answer #9 · answered by BElow froSTy 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
I have done both FFM threesomes and FMM thressomes, if you are of the right mind and all parties are into it willingly than it can be a lot of fun.
2006-09-08 14:26:06 · answer #10 · answered by ready4it45 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋