I am 26 years old. I met this guy and he is wonderful. He is one of the sweetest guys I have ever met. I myself don't see no issue with the age difference, but I don't think my parents will take too kindly to it. What is y'alls opinion?
Thanks everyone!
2006-09-08 07:19:32 · 46 answers · asked by voodoo_moonbaby43968 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Um...GerryK, what does that have to do with my question??
2006-09-08 07:28:10 · update #1
A few background details.....I was with my ex for almost eight years. We lived together for most of that time. When we broke up, I had to move back in with my parents because I couldn't afford to get a place on my own. I pay all my own bills, bought my own car, and give them money when I can. I mean, I do live in the house with them. The reason I mentioned my parents is because it seems like they (mainly my mom) haven't realized I am an adult yet.
Thanks for all your answers, y'all rock!!
2006-09-08 07:31:31 · update #2
What kind of person he is is more important that what age he is.
If he treats you well and with love and respect, and you feel the same for him, this nine year difference is piffle. Will it matter so much when you're 46 and he's 55. Nope. Gor for it, you only live life once and real love isn't easy to find!
At 26, maintaining a good relationship with your parents is nice, but you're old enough now to call your own shots in YOUR life, with or without their approval. Good luck!
2006-09-08 07:26:21 · answer #1 · answered by Duende71 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
You could look at it this way... Around the day you were born he was more or less 9 years old. When you were going to start High School... he may have already finish a four year college degree (if he still doesn't have one then that in itself may be cause for concern).
The answer depends on who you ask, but the right answer will only come from you. Whatever you decide to do with your life is the right choice for you.
If you have been seeing this individual for a long time and you are happy with his maturity level, his conduct, etc... if you are confident a long term relationship with him will benefit both of you more than cause harm... Then you should continue to see him.
Maybe both of you are just out to "have fun" and not get serious. And if you are on the same page then there's no drama.
I would strongly suggest you get to know him extremely well before you introduce him to your parents. Then you will know what to tell your parents about him.
Know that there's always the chance that even if you were dating the perfect man your parents may still object. But if they love you eventually they may come around.
2006-09-08 07:34:10 · answer #2 · answered by crazy_monkey_jr010 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey, I'm almost 40, and my g/f was 29 just a few, short months ago. I think your 26/35 relationship sounds good. HOWEVER, as a very personal preference, I kind of wouldn't date a girl younger than 25. As long as there is maturity and a firm emotional balance on both of the adults involved, I'd say age shouldn't matter.
Good luck, beauty.
2006-09-08 11:27:28 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know your parents, but I can't imagine them having a problem with this sort of age difference. I'm guessing your both at a similar stage in life. It's not as if you're 18 and he's 27 (same difference in years, but loads of difference in life stage).
Why don't you just have a couple dates with this guy and see where they lead before you involve your parents.
2006-09-08 07:23:26 · answer #4 · answered by Toga748 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should try to show them you really love him.At an age like 26 it doesn't matter how u look but how u feel.You are mature enough to take responsibilities in a relationship and having found someone u love is something precious and unusual in these days.Don't lose him for a reason like that.
2006-09-08 07:30:00 · answer #5 · answered by firefly 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nine years difference is not a big deal since you are 26, but if you were 18 or younger, then there would be a problem! If he is good to you, that is all that matters; your parents will just have to deal with it!!!
2006-09-08 07:24:15 · answer #6 · answered by lambert_fan1967 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it would be a little different if it was 16 or 18 to 35; I bring that up because you would probably be at different steps in your lives. However, at your age, I see no problem with it if he is supportive and nice.
2006-09-08 07:22:46 · answer #7 · answered by flyboop_2000 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have a feeling they would be more unhappy if you were 16 and he was 35... You're an adult, and can choose for yourself. If he makes you happy, and you think he's the one, then go for it!! Really, what difference should it make to your folks, anyway? I'm sure all they want is for you to be happy. You have to do what's right for you, not what's right for your parents or anyone else.
2006-09-08 07:25:42 · answer #8 · answered by ReeRee 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm 26 and my boyfriends 34 and he too is the sweetest man I've ever known. Parents!You're a grown woman who can make her own decisions.
2006-09-08 07:22:36 · answer #9 · answered by nashiranickel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you are 26 you are alittle too old to let your parents make your decisions for you. Aside from that - no. Age s unimportant. I am 38 and my g/f is 22. We get along just fine.
2006-09-08 07:22:04 · answer #10 · answered by c.arsenault 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋