He is friends with my ex,I ran into him one night andwe hit it off talking,I was still bitter about catching my ex cheating on me,he listened and understood.He drove me home that night and I invited him to stay,I asked him to sleep in the bed with me,he did, I asked him to put his arm around me and he did till i slept,he was a complete gentleman and did not make anymoves.I saw him once since then and he came to me and said"your killing me",my ex was there so we had to keep quiet.I was told from a mutual friend that he likes me but is freaked about my ex.It has been 6 months since that night and I still think about him.Am I crazy?
2006-09-08 07:18:05 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Jesus, lol. You met the guy and asked him to sleep in your bed HAHA! He's probably wondering if you're worth it. I can see why your last boyfriend dumped you. Women like you are fun for us men. Easy prey and then disrespected the next day LOL!
2006-09-08 07:21:07 · answer #1 · answered by bad_dog76 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, you are emotionally attached, not crazy. And yes it is worth it! Show him you like him.....I bet he already harbors a secret crush for you for the same reason. You slept next to a guy, and if he does not get feelings or already have feelings as a result, the guy is either gay or nuts. He's your for the taking!
Though, I would watch it. Your ex may beat him up, and the guy sounds terrified of that happening. I have a gut feeling that the ex is MUCH stronger. This will create tensions in their friendship most likely...
2006-09-08 07:22:29 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're not crazy at all..I think you should talk to this guy and tell him how you feel. It may be a little awkward considering he's friend's with a guy who cheated on you..if it doesn't work out right now, don't freak out because your ex and him may not be friends forever and after that you two may have a better chance at being together. He sounds like a really great guy not to have tried anything with you..I'd say he's worth it!!
2006-09-08 07:21:41 · answer #3 · answered by samantha_renee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No you are not crazy. BUT.....you shouldn't date your ex's friends, that's just not cool. when guys do it they get points, when we do it we get names. Also you don't want to come between their friendship. Not only that, at the time you were vulnerable, if anyone had come along and showed you a little attention you would still be thinking about it. I've been there.
Keisha
2006-09-08 07:24:02 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no, but obviously that night you were looking for some human comfort. That being said, if your still thinking about him then maybe you should give it a chance with him. Start off really slow though by actually dating and see where that takes you.
It never hurts (long) to try.
2006-09-08 07:22:15 · answer #5 · answered by static_nerdling 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you asked him to sleep with you and he didn't make any moves, were you disappointed? sounds like you were trying to get him to suggest sex.
you are probably curious what would have happened had he been a rogue. you've only seen him once in six months! if you really liked him, you would have tried seeing him again a long, long time ago.
leave the poor guy alone.
2006-09-08 07:36:48 · answer #6 · answered by buffysummers 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get over your ex, hence the reason he is your EX. and go talk to the guy! He sounds great, don't lose him because of an EX!
2006-09-08 07:22:29 · answer #7 · answered by PeachyFixation 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no your not crazy, not all men can do what he did. how bout talk to him about how you feel and he feels. And just out of respect talk to your ex if you guys still talk or have that kind of relationship. life is too short go for it he may be the one.
2006-09-08 07:21:31 · answer #8 · answered by Sexy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I’m glad you waited, nothing is worse than dragging baggage into another relationship. If you’re still thinking of him then call him and setup a date or a friendly outing. Gentlemen are a rare find.
2006-09-08 08:06:27 · answer #9 · answered by passion611 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are killing him, he treated you better that one night then the dick you were seeing......six months.......what the hell are you even around your ex for.
Tell him to take a hike so you can spend some time with this other gentleman....hes a real man, not your ex!
2006-09-08 07:21:45 · answer #10 · answered by WitchTwo 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋