To believe that ayoung 26yrs.old woman who's beautiful and inteligent can really love and accept you as you are?
I've had this experience where this older man could not believe that I love him even thou he was poor and depressed and not very good looking.
I really loved the stupid Idiot!
2006-09-08 07:12:02 · 13 answers · asked by coleman_debby 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
To see what I look like view my 360 I'm the lady in red, in the album.
2006-09-08 07:33:22 · update #1
There is no such thing as perfect ;P just acceptable.
2006-09-08 07:20:43 · answer #1 · answered by omvg1 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
men are some times that way but then they have a problem with the age and what others will say, then you have them that only one a young gal around to make them feel young and are using you, then you have those that think that you wont feel that way in a few yrs and that it would be jipping you out of your youth, and then you have those that will love you and you love them, but they feel that you could do better than them, then you have them that love you and you love then they start to wonder well i am getting older what happens if they become impeten will you still love them and it wouldnt be fair to you.
If you really love him, talk to him, and be understanding, because he could be going thur this empeten and not knowing how to handle it and can you live with that.or is sex really that important to you.
I know what I am talking about, I am 45 my b/f is 62 and he worries about that and that it isnt fair to me. But like I have told him if it comes to that we will cross that water when we get there, but yes i enjoy making love just like the next person but it is not the most important thing in loving someone, their always so many different ways to make love even if it is alook, a hold of the hand even cuddling. Just let what happen happens I love the person and I am in love with the person. and We will cross those waters if it comes to that.
2006-09-08 14:26:05 · answer #2 · answered by barbara g 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It depends alot on how much over 35 you're talking. I'm way over 35, poor because I'm disabled.........I couldn't really tell you about looks. If a good looking 26 year old claimed to have fallen for me, it would do two things. Thrill me clear down to my toes and make me wonder why. It would be hard to believe she was sincere but at the same time, it would sure be nice.
2006-09-08 14:26:38 · answer #3 · answered by oldman 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am 36 and I never had a problem getting a woman to talk to me or want to date me. I am middle class working stiff even. It is all about attitude and confidence. If you don't have either then it doesn't matter how old you are, what you look like, or how much money you have. If she doesn't want me because I am too old for her, it is her loss and not mine.
2006-09-08 14:19:15 · answer #4 · answered by davester1970 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm 43 poor, depressed and not very good looking and my last GF was 25. What's your number?
2006-09-08 14:18:42 · answer #5 · answered by Scott L 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Like you said he was depressed,and think for minute,it could be because of his pass life.But your a good person for loving another regardless of wealth or status.
2006-09-08 14:29:15 · answer #6 · answered by master_der_man 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's all about self confidence............which He didn't have.......
Look around --- it takes ALL KINDS... to make the world go around!!!
"Live Well, Love Much, and Laugh Often"
2006-09-08 14:17:47 · answer #7 · answered by Uwanna Kissimmi 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would believe you, but then i'm a little older and probably better off in all those departments.
2006-09-08 14:17:49 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
women of any age can accept men for who they are
the question is can we accept our selves
2006-09-08 14:19:27 · answer #9 · answered by Xae 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
will you marry me. and love me for who i am, I'm just an average Joe.
2006-09-08 14:22:32 · answer #10 · answered by rickinobetz 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋