I met an Indian guy on the Christian web-site. He seems really nice and we have the same views on life. I offered him to fly to my country and meet each other, but he said what if nothing will work out between us, if that would happen I had to find a girl-friend for him. After these words I stopped talking to him, but now he appologizes all the time and wants to be at least friends with me. Should I allow him? I kind of lost my trust in him.
2006-09-08 07:11:07 · 5 answers · asked by zhinnka 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
That is such a STUPID idea!!!
2006-09-08 07:16:22 · answer #1 · answered by doc 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If the relationship will not work, "you have to find a girlfriend for him"???
That is a very clear indication that chatting with you is very self-serving for that man. He is only thinking for himself! He will use you (free airline ticket, free visa? DON'T!). If you ever decide to marry this man, please make sure that you have a prenuptial agreement regarding your finances and privacy (to name a few). The warning signs are already up.
You have to understand his culture: males are looked as superior over females. Please do not propose to him! Doing so will debase you even more not only in his eyes but also in the eyes of his family and community. Are you able to live with that, to be married to someone who disdains you?
You may be drawn to his "niceness" but it is obviously all a front.
2006-09-08 07:18:30 · answer #2 · answered by tranquil 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes, trust him. if ur love is true u will meet each other sometime.
if u r keen to meet him u can ask his address and fly to him.
now,u might be thinking that he is a boy and he should propose u ? but u girls only say that we r not lees than boys. so fly to him and express ur love and feelings.
2006-09-08 07:17:41 · answer #3 · answered by sid 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Without trust you have no relationship. trust is the single most important thing in any relationship and I wouldn't trust that guy as far as I could throw him.
2006-09-08 07:13:53 · answer #4 · answered by bad_dog76 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Things happen, just give him ONE more shot.......
2006-09-08 07:14:43 · answer #5 · answered by Praiser in the storm 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋