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has been living with us for the past 6 months waiting for her granddaughter to move out of her home. During this time we have become aware of how much my husband's brother's wife and children take advantage of this vulnerable time in her life. She is very capable and functional but recently widowed. The granddaughter doesn't pay the utilities, let the landscaping die, nor has she paid rent in the past 6 months. The granddaughter and her mother pay Grandmother back with cks that bounce. We are sick of it but realize there are limits to what we can do. Any suggestions besides opening up a can of whoop ***?

2006-09-08 07:06:10 · 5 answers · asked by midge 1 in Family & Relationships Family

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You should probably contact an attorney and get her evicted, if your mother in law will do it.

2006-09-08 07:09:30 · answer #1 · answered by shrinkydinkheart 4 · 0 0

the element is, if the spouse of a JW pushes against his desires and does no longer renowned that he's the pinnacle of the relatives individuals, he would be counseled by the elders that it rather is grounds for divorce. while stress on his spirituality ideals along with his faith is compromised, they are allowed to be divorced by their doctrine. it rather is what they suspect is adultry different than the definitely which ability of adultry is. If the spouse is attempting to cajole the husband that JW faith is faulty then he would be forced right into a divorce by the elders of his congregation. the affection they have between them would be challenged, that's going to be a no longer undemanding attempt of their marrital potential. that's a 50/50 win. The question is to her, is her marriage properly worth scuffling with against his non secular ideals? Have her heavily think of approximately this. My ex is a JW and went by this comparable style of situation. i did no longer question his authority to maintain the marriage, and tried to no longer get contained in the way of his ideals. nonetheless the elders forced him to divorce me below the "erratically yoked" perception they have. I wasn't considered one of them yet I did study on and rancid for 6 years with them, attempting to comprehend their ideals. as quickly as I merely stayed away all mutually and wanted the study to end thoroughly i became nonetheless seen an apostate to them. He at last fell out of love and something is background. no longer something i ought to do helped the area yet your pal could have a guess to stay married if she does not go against his ideals.

2016-09-30 11:39:17 · answer #2 · answered by alisha 4 · 0 0

That whoop can is a great idea!!! But sadly you cannot do anything, your mother in law has to be the one to do it. She has to realize that she is being taken advantage of and change it. Until she does you can try and talk to her about it but in the end it is up to her.

2006-09-08 07:13:56 · answer #3 · answered by slanteyedkat 4 · 0 0

Have you considered having your husband petition a court to become his mother's guardian?

2006-09-08 07:10:50 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Try to fin them a low income housing if they cant afford to move.That is what I will do.

2006-09-08 07:09:35 · answer #5 · answered by baby 4 · 0 0

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