There was a really hot teacher who called me after graduation (after I turned 18) and asked me to get together while his wife was out of town. He made it clear, not in so many words, that this would be a sexual encounter. I got scared and hung up and never saw him again, then I heard last year he died. Has this ever happened to you? What happened in detail?
2006-09-08 06:57:49 · 14 answers · asked by nido_tr3s 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
yes actually.
he was the band director, and had known me since the seventh grade...(Which he hit on me then too). I uesd to wear shirts with words on them..ya know little quips about this and that--etc. and he would stare at m shirt for minutes at a time (even stopping class to stare)...longer than it takes to read a sentence or two..
he would constantly want to have a "conference" in his office when i wasnt feeling well or seemed to him i was having a bad day....
of course this made playing tests a nightmare for me.
he even rubbed my friends leg a few times and called us "his hot chicks"
i should have reported him..but i was young and scared
2006-09-08 07:04:41 · answer #1 · answered by TheMaverick.The Artist 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, but I am a male so it probably wouldn't happen as often to us.
I was a substitute teacher for awhile when I relocated back to California and was looking for a new job, and I was surprised to hear what some of the teachers would say about their female students (and I subbed in Middle School as well as High School). I would be surprised if it didn't happen fairly often to High School girls. And if it has happened to some of you high school girls (or middle school girls) in the future, please tell someone. This should NOT be happening. At least, in your case, the teacher waited until you were out of school, and 18 years old.
2006-09-08 14:06:16 · answer #2 · answered by The Guru 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope. Thank goodness I didn't have a teacher in high school go May Kay Letourneau on me. LOL. I can't remember ever having a high school teacher that I would "hit it" with. The closest one I might have had is my sophmore year art teacher Ms. Ackerman, but she was so boned skinny that she almost looked like she stepped out of Auschwitz.
2006-09-08 14:05:06 · answer #3 · answered by davester1970 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wel you did the right thing. i know i would have been freaked too.
something similar happened to me, although i'm not sure if he was hitting on me or not. my math teacher in my senior year of high school was young, hot, and married. he was always staring at me, taking me aside for 'talks', and giving me A's on a test which i knew i didn't do well and had some wrong answers. once he asked me what college i would be going to and i told him, then he said he goes there all the time (for whatever reason) and if he saw me there he'd have lunch with me and we could 'chat.' he also gave me his number. (for any 'questions on math') he left in the middle of the year though, (rumor was he got fired for hitting on the girls) but he was there at graduation. i ended up NOT going to that college that i told him i'd go to, and hopefully i'll never see him again.
2006-09-08 14:15:38 · answer #4 · answered by annie 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Ewww and yeah I was legal already though....I was 19 in night school and this moron teacher (who I swear used to spike his soda with liquor) bent down and told me how nice my lips were and asked me if I had a boyfriend and what did I do for fun. I sternly said are you serious....you had better not be and gave him a dirty look. It was creepy then I came to find out he lives in my same apartment complex and was trying to run for a seat on the co-op board scary!!!!! Mind you he was not bad looking or old but it was just wrong and creepy aside from the fact he was not my type even if he weren't my teacher.
2006-09-08 14:09:13 · answer #5 · answered by Miss J 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When I was in 11th grade I had this one teacher from alternative school always touching my shoulder or my back and he would tell me how pretty I was and that I could get better then the guy I was with I caught him stareing at my boobs alot of times it made me feel very uncomfortable it got so bad I actually quit his class
2006-09-08 14:03:04 · answer #6 · answered by blondeqtwitanicebooty 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
While I was a manager of a high school football team while in high school, I get yelled by coaches at times and I say that is verbal abuse.
2006-09-08 14:01:58 · answer #7 · answered by aaron_esq 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what a loser. you were smart to hang up on him.
i had an english teacher hit on me in high school. he was always picking on me in class and winking at me. it was really annoying. then one day, he grabbed my butt. i automatically punched him in the face. then i gave him a dirty look and walked away. i didn't press charges. he didn't press charges. and he left me alone after that.
2006-09-08 14:03:13 · answer #8 · answered by miss advice 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
wow! what school did you go to?? lol, no, seriously, that is WRONG!!
i know many of my friends would hit on the cute teachers, but nobody that i know ever was hit on by one of them...
2006-09-08 14:02:43 · answer #9 · answered by whaaatthe 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Soooo Many. I lost my virginity to one of my high school teachers. He was so sexy, and only 25 years old. We used to flirt all the time and one day he offered to give me a lift home, passed my house and went to his house instead, it was fun. I was 15.
2006-09-08 14:13:49 · answer #10 · answered by DivaByNature,B*tchByChoice 2 · 1⤊ 3⤋