What's He Up To?

Question

Ok, so my guy asked me do I want to go somewhere tomorrow? I said where, he said it's a surprise. I said sure, he said, well go and get your hair done tonight, lay out your clothes (something really nice) bring a change of clothes for just in case, find a sitter. We're going on a trip. Hooray!!! I'm so excited, What's he up to?

Answer 1

he's treating you rite - don't question it - have fun.

Answer 2

Be patient you will soon find out! Because how would we know, but hey it sounds exciting!!! I should do something like that with my girl!

Answer 3

He wants to take you out to some place nice, and then some other activity that requires tougher, or less formal clothing. He may even want to take you to a hotel (if your relationship has moved on to a sexual level).

Men are simple creatures and not as complicated as women think we are, usually the most direct answer is the right one.

Men are fairly simple creatures; it's in our biology. Men are geared to reproduce quickly and often. That is why sex can be so short for us; and why a picture of a hot woman is enough to get a man aroused. Men are capable of multiple relationships with multiple women. They can stay in a serious relationship, but only if they are willing to make the commitment. The biggest problem with men is that they often think with their lower head, rather than the one that sits on top of their neck.

Women are more complicated. They need to carry a baby to term and raise it. A picture of a hot man can get some women excited, but not for long--they need a relationship. They want to know a man, and they want to be able to trust him to possibly raise a child. Women are geared to hunt for a mate that they can raise a child with; it's in their biology. Women want a stable relationship with one man. A woman often seems to get less out of sex because their biology requires either multiple sessions or they require a longer session to insure that the male has a better chance of putting his sperm where it can create a child. This explains the women’s greater need for foreplay. They need to build up to a climax.

Humans are one of the few creatures that are always in “season.” A human can breed all year round. This makes it better for the male to spread his genes, and lets the woman use the allure for sex to hold on to their mate. When sex becomes less frequent the male’s attention may wander. Generating sperm is easy to do, and men do it in the thousands for most of their lifespan. Women have a set number of eggs and a period of youth and adult stages when they can get pregnant. Carrying a baby to term is a difficult, and often dangerous task, one that can only be attempted by someone who is very fit. This is why women have menopause and why after a time sex starts to lose its attraction.

Some women are attracted to the dangerous man. While at first this doesn't seem like a good idea, the dangerous man is more likely to win in any competition. If a woman is with such a man then she can be assured that another man won't try to take her away from him. Again it's all in the biology. Look at the lion pride. The strongest male has a harem of females. He gets them pregnant and they raise their cubs. The male has to defend himself against other rival males. He spends most of the night making loud growls to show the others that he is the dominant male, and he will fight off any competing males. When a new male takes over, the first thing he does is to kill all the old male's cubs. This puts the females into heat, and he can breed with them.

Unfortunately, since women are complex creatures they think that men are. This can lead to a lot of misunderstandings. Men are simple creatures; they look for the simple and straightforward solution of problems. Since men are less complicated then women we tend to have problems understanding them. Complexity doesn’t mean smarter than simple, it means that a different approach is being used.

Men like sports because it is a trial by combat. They may claim other reasons, but the most basic one is the combat. A male biology gears the man to be able to defeat his rivals and hold on to his mate(s). This is why men are better fighters.

Humans may be reasoning and intelligent beings, but they still have the same instincts that they started with. We are a lot closer to animals than we think. The difference between humans and the animals is that mankind can rise above their instincts. We can use tools, and change the environment to suit us. Once that happened though mankind became immune to evolution. We can attempt to improve the breed, weed out problem genes, and turn others on or off, but we cannot escape our instincts.

Our intelligence lets us rise above our instincts. A woman can be a soldier, but she may prefer a more caring approach. A man can be a homemaker, but he may prefer to go out into the wild and hunt (he often does this by getting a job). Women and men can do each other’s jobs, but their biology has defined roles for them and their instincts have to be overcome.

He wants to treat you to a nice evening. Sex is always on a man's mind (it's in our instincts), so he may want sex as well, but I doubt if he will rape you or do anything mean to you. He is trying to make you happy and to make you like him more so go with it. If he goes to far then just say no. As long as you do it before you enter the Hotel he will take it pretty well. If he doesn't then just go to the ladies room in the Hotel and call 911. I seriously doubt you will need to do that though.

Answer 4

he's doing something nice to show he cares- don't question it just go with it-- if ya'll have been together a long time- I would think he might be getting ready to propose though.....

Answer 5

Los Vegas baby!!

Answer 6

might be a proposal

Answer 7

hit that pussy

Answer 8

i dunno.... it's a surprise, have a good time!!

Answer 9

suspense.....................