We are both in our 30's. He has no kids, does he not realize the reality of what could happen?
I am not looking for a lecture, I am wondering what YOU think his motives could be?
2006-09-08 06:44:25 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
either he doesn't mind you pregnant or he doesn't realize the reality of it
2006-09-08 09:29:40 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
A lot of men don't like condoms because they say the sensation isn't the same. If you are worried about STD's, ask him to get tested. If it is pregnancy that concerns you, you should protect yourself with the pill or some other form of contraceptive.
I don't necessarily think he has a "motive". Men can be very selfish creatures! He is probably only thinking about the moment and not the long term.
2006-09-08 06:49:50 · answer #2 · answered by Kailey 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, no kidding. What an ***. Maybe you should find someone else. I think the "effect" it just bigger for him without protection. He doesn't care about the other stuff. You're probably an open person and he knows if you'd have any sicknesses you'd tell him so actually, all risks are on you... but... it is kind of funny he doesn't have any kids... weird... well, good luck with that one
2006-09-08 06:48:40 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Huh. Maybe he just assumes that you are on the pill and you are both faithful to each other. I would really just ask him how come he doesn't use protection.
OR better yet, buy some condoms yourself and when you guys are getting hot & heavy say something like "I have protection..." that way you can show him that it is on your mind.
2006-09-08 06:59:22 · answer #4 · answered by Mintygoodness1 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This isn't a lecture but, if he's not using protection on the regular, who's to blame here? It's your body you know. Anyway, I think his motive is he's trying to make you pregnant.
2006-09-08 06:49:27 · answer #5 · answered by Tee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he's attempting now to not use safe practices because he gained't be the only with the large abdomen. He ought to nicely be in his 30s so a techniques as his chronological age is going, yet mentally he's a techniques extra immature than that. Why do you waste a at the same time as?
2016-11-06 22:03:07 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He apparently doesn't care about what the outcome could be. BUT YOU BETTER or you're the one who'll pay the price. He's not worth it. Never let a man of any age, make you feel like you're not worth using condoms for. Some will try, but if that's what you want, it's your body. If he doesn't respect that, then no sex for him.
2006-09-08 06:59:36 · answer #7 · answered by wayouthere 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he is just F*cking stupid and so are you for allowing him to have sex with you without protection. i.e Not only him but you both are F*cking stupid. He doesnt have a motive but is just stupid......Sorry i mean you both are stupid..... This not a lecture but the reality of life for you both.
2006-09-08 06:48:29 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He may think a woman your age would probably be using some method besides condoms. Maybe he doesn't want to appear immature.
If you two can't even communicate about something so simple, you certainly shouldn't be having sex!!! Really don't mean to offend you. That's the truth though... best I can do for you...
2006-09-08 06:50:35 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
i'm not really sure, but a lot of guys "dont like the feeling".
Apparently it feels better without.
I have had guy try to pull that line with me and I just tell them if they want to have my baby then we dont have to use protection. That usually gets him to understand.
2006-09-08 06:48:28 · answer #10 · answered by Lindsey H 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if your both clean thean y should he have too? You should be on birth control!! get on one of the pills that changes your period to like 4 times a year.
Dont you realize that sex without condoms feels sooooo much better than with it. stop being a **** and let him bust his nut all up in you!!!
2006-09-08 06:50:53 · answer #11 · answered by 10 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋