my man has been unfaithful on at least 2 ocassions that i am aware of. One of which was with my childhood friend. That hurt me extremely. He claims he does not trust women because he has been hurt in the past, however i was a victem of domestic violence and know that all men are not alike. I hane now met a gentleman that has shown interest in me. He is very sweet and tries to convince me to let my guard down. I do have an interest in him. But when i even speak to him i feel guilty, i have never cheated on my boyfriend despite what he has done to me. BUt i do not want to be a fool for him no more and what to be loved & treated as a real woman should be. I have expressed my feelings to my new interest and explained that it will take me time to let down my barriers. Should i give him a chance and walk away from my beau of 2 years or continue to trust that he will allow me to love him completely. He claims he is trying to be faithful but i can not trust him when he has lied before
2006-09-08 06:24:58 · 17 answers · asked by confused 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Once a cheater allways a cheater. If that was me I would have left him the first time! Ask yourself this one question, would I inflict this same kind of pain on someone else? Do I want to just lie to myself and get hurt all the time from some jerk wad whose destroying my time from finding my true love? Heck no!!! Find deep down inside yourself a strong woman and build yourself up and stand up for yourself. You are powerfull and can get any guy you want.....Be wise on who you choose there are many wolves and fakes, same with women like your so called friend....
Evil.....they all are. You should just start off fresh and new after you have healed yourself mentaly and are ready for a better life with someone else. Not just anyone, be very picky! And honey, you will feel soo much better....I promise!
2006-09-08 06:37:28 · answer #1 · answered by Baby 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You never spoke of love. Do you love this man? Is this man worth it? 2 years dosen't seem like alot of invested time, but is time wasted. Not all men cheat or have the reason to cheat. You've been hurt in the past and you don't want to feel that kind of pain again. We've all been through playing the fool, but ask yourself how much more of this can you take. I would'nt lose this new found friend, keep him around as someone you can vent , hang out with to get your mind off of the negative. If ole boy keeps acting up then you can take the interest of the other into effect.
2006-09-08 06:37:10 · answer #2 · answered by tee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, any guy who cheats on a faithful girl doesn't deserve to be with her or have any more of her time. I'd get rid of him, especially since he's already told you he does not trust women. All that means is he doesn't wanna commit to anyone. However, take things slow with a new guy, don't trust him completely right off the bat or let him too far into your life too quick.
2006-09-08 06:33:25 · answer #3 · answered by angelbaby 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is always hard to let those barriers down but easier with a clean slate. If you are willing to talk to the new beau you have probably made up your mind and just dont want to admit it. Good luck!
2006-09-08 06:28:38 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-06 22:01:25 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have the right to explore the option of another relationship, your current one doesn't seem to be working. Your BF will certainly cheat on you again. So tell him you want to see other people, turn the table on him and watch him squirm.
2006-09-08 06:30:14 · answer #6 · answered by Maria b 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get rid of the loser and start living your life. You so deserve better than him! Find someone who will love you for you are and respect you as a woman. Good luck!
2006-09-08 06:30:22 · answer #7 · answered by kihteacher 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you do not trust your boyfriend then it is time to move on. I know that if he has cheated on you twice then you do not trust him. Move on with your new friend. Good Luck!
2006-09-08 06:28:39 · answer #8 · answered by Michelle 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
give him a good kick in the a.s.s and move on as you can already see you have other people interested in you. your young and you dont need to wais your time on someone like him. live your life how you want and have as much funn as you can you only live once so enjoy it.
2006-09-08 06:29:11 · answer #9 · answered by ice_princess 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump the cheater. He doesn't love, open up to the new guy. He can't be worst then your boyfriend.
2006-09-08 06:34:10 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋