I met a guy at my job 2 years ago and he was from across the country (east vs west coast) we talked every sec of every day. Basically we spent 48 hours together when he was in my state and then fell in love with each other over the phone...distance. We talked about everything...relationships...church...kids...politics...abortion....drugs....warr...etc...i fell in love with who he is, what he stands for and what he wants in life and dreams to accomplish. we both agreed we couldnt be together right away and (2 years ago)...due to me being in school and him just graduating....now two years later...i still think of him every sec. of every day and all i want with love...is to love him for the rest of my life... i attempted (prob drove him crazy) over the past 2 years with phone calls, text, and emails....but have tried over the past few months to make in a minimum...like maybe once a month....i still love him and now he is only 6 hours away from me....what do i do??? is this love??? crazy?
2006-09-08 06:22:10 · 9 answers · asked by livnnow123 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
This is a difficult decision. One thing I can tell you is follow your heart. Your mind tells you many thing taht make alot of sense, but one thing it cant tell you is how to love. A question you need to ask yourself is how did he react to your quit less love.When you talked to him did he sound as enthusiastic as you did? the truth may be hard. Just keep an open mind and an open heart.
2006-09-08 06:32:46 · answer #1 · answered by psiboy13 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I sounds like he moved on since he hasn't replied to you in all this time. I suggest you move on and find someone new. There is apparently nothing left to hold on to. Sorry to be so harsh, but you did ask.
2006-09-08 13:27:33 · answer #2 · answered by T.G. 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to try to get a hold of him before you go because if you go and you find out that he has a girl then that would just break you heart even more
2006-09-08 13:29:03 · answer #3 · answered by kingkong9274 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey, if he like you or love you he will still call you or se you.. He has move on and should do you... Move on and stop thinking about him.. Nothing is going to happen...
2006-09-08 13:39:07 · answer #4 · answered by funkysha916 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have been harassing him for 2 years i dont blame him for not calling you back. Move on cause it seems like he has.
2006-09-08 13:25:44 · answer #5 · answered by baby_luv 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he doens't returns your calls, that should be a reason
for you not to keep on calling him.
hint hint
2006-09-08 13:33:37 · answer #6 · answered by anne_9268 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it is love! Go see him girl!
2006-09-08 13:27:31 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
mabbe..had he really want to be wid u...i think he should have call u at least once in a while to say hi!!!
2006-09-08 13:27:19 · answer #8 · answered by miss_xiong03 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go get him
2006-09-08 13:24:47 · answer #9 · answered by joe 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋