2006-09-08 06:21:33 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sure if you want a restraining order against you.
2006-09-08 06:23:02 · answer #1 · answered by Laughing Libra 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should, you will live with the whole " what if..." thing in your head for the rest of your life if you don't. What's the worst that could happen anyway, she says no way and turns her back on you, didn't that already happen seeings how she is your ex and all I don't think you would be missing out on anyhting if you approached her with your true feelings. Good Luck
2006-09-08 13:25:09 · answer #2 · answered by ploobis 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
9 years is a lot if you have not said anything since. do not say anything now. Have you had a serious relationship since. Do you give other people a chance. Try it am sure you will be over her once you find that special someone.
2006-09-08 13:30:52 · answer #3 · answered by dk 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her if you like. the worst that can happen is that she may not feel the same way. well its been lots and lots of years since you two. if i were you, id get ahold of her and maybe say something. you can love for as long as you live i have come to find out. i still have feelings (mixed) for my recent x. but not 9 yrs. she musta been something good to you. tell her.
2006-09-08 13:23:48 · answer #4 · answered by Kasey 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unless you have a protection order against you, then yes. At worst, she can say, "thank you for sharing, but I am not in love with you". At best, you date a few times and see what happens.
2006-09-08 13:24:34 · answer #5 · answered by limgrn_maria 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
of course you should tell her. I think that the reason that you haven't yet is because your afraid of the response. Even if she doesn't respond the way you want at least you put it out there. When you love someone that strongly for that long, you should let them know what they mean to you.
2006-09-08 13:28:23 · answer #6 · answered by skipper 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes you should
imagine your life more 9 years like that it would be terrible
2006-09-08 13:23:44 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, if you don't tell her then the two of you will never get together again, and the longer you wait, the less chance you will have of getting together with her.
You have to tell her about your feelings, before she finds another guy.
2006-09-08 13:26:04 · answer #8 · answered by Dan S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Damn near a decade! Don't you think if it was meant to be something would have happened already. She is an ex for a reason. Move on.
2006-09-08 13:24:16 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Might as well! What would you have to lose since you are ex's? Worst case scenario is she says she is not interested. At least if you are alone, that is not too embarrassing.
2006-09-08 13:29:03 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes ~ A friend of mine did so, and she actually broke off her engagement and married him. They now have 3 beatiful children and a very happy life
2006-09-08 13:22:57 · answer #11 · answered by JUNONNKI 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋