Fortunately, a broken heart is something that I've never felt before, but some of my friends tell me is an awful feeling, you feel like going crazy, you feel like doing nothing, like you are not hungry etc etc
They keep telling me that someday I might get my heart broken and that I will go entirely nuts, cuz it will be the 1st time...
have you ever feel heart broken before?? how have you felt?
2006-09-08 06:10:02 · 23 answers · asked by alvarito8 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Lucky you for never having gone through it!
It effects everyone differently. For me my heart DOES actually ache, like it is being squeezed tight. I sleep too much. Either I eat too much or not at all. And it will drive you crazy because you cannot stop thinking about that person. You agonize whether or not you should call them or not (don't), & you agonize even more reliving every little word or action that passed between you trying to figure out where you went wrong.
It is worse when you cannot understand why the person broke off with you or that person did not tell you why.
2006-09-08 06:27:39 · answer #1 · answered by Selkie 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Not long ago the boy I loved left me for another girl. Since we were children I had dreamed that one day I would be his wife. Now I have no dreams left. A broken heart makes your whole world suddenly become unreal. You feel that you are sleepwalking through life with no reason or purpose. Day and night make no difference. Time crawls past you and every one looks like a stranger. There is no drug that can cause this to happen. Only the terrible sound of those few words: it is over.
2006-09-08 06:14:22 · answer #2 · answered by Isis 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Its a feeling that does drive you crazy. It keeps you up at night.
Its all you think about. Nothing satisfies you. Music on the radio
won't make you happy. You rethink every think in your mind. All the could of should ofs go through you head and you are lost to only the empty feeling inside of you. Its out of your control. You can't make that other person feel something that isn't there. That is the worst of it. Knowing that you are very hurt and the other on is moving on with there life.
If you never have had the chance to feel this way, count your blessing and pray for the ones around you who are going through the brokenheart. Its not a place anyone wants to be.
I am going through one right now.
Its over someone over the internet.
Now, its to trust someone who only reads
your words and just take them for
granted.
2006-09-08 06:18:08 · answer #3 · answered by anne_9268 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
It feels like someone has ripped your heart out of your chest. You can't stop crying. You wonder what you did wrong and try to change yourself. Sometimes you feel like you can't even continue to live. But after a couple of weeks you get hardened and could care less about the stupid fool who broke your heart and realize there are a million other fish in the sea.
2006-09-08 06:14:42 · answer #4 · answered by lilmama 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, I have. I remember that at that point in time, I could feel nothing. Just a sort of a blankness. Somewhat like what your friends said - didn't feel like eating, drinking, didn't have a clue what tto do next sort of a thing. It lasted just for a few minutes and then i was back to normal.
Its like someone said - 'Freeze' and u actually did - there are no thoughts even. Just blank, unable to believe what i just heard, then shocked at what i heard, then wondering what else did i expect anyway and then - nothing for a few minutes and then - ok its time to grab a coffee and get to next task in hand.
2006-09-08 06:15:57 · answer #5 · answered by clear-n-content 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, I have felt like that. It feels like the end of the world. You stop doing your favorite things, you don't want to go anywhere...everything reminds you of that special person- songs, places, even certain words. It's depression times 100. It's the worst feeling in the world, but it makes moving on and loving someone else that much more special~
2006-09-08 06:13:40 · answer #6 · answered by shynomore 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
it truly is organic to experience undesirable after a damaged coronary heart, besides the undeniable fact that, you may want to enable bypass. we may be able to no longer take undesirable adventure into yet another relationship. It does no longer artwork. we are assume to study something about that previous relationship, sore what did I do incorrect, did I %. the incorrect guy? and many different questions. If I allow you to know strategies many circumstances I have had damaged coronary heart you'll not trust it. each so often we %. the incorrect human being or a jerk or someone that would not want dedication. We basically might want to the right thanks to discover that kind of human being. to illustrate in case you bypass out with someone that favor to mistreat you or placed you down or would not look to have an interest, or he say he will call and he/she would not etc., now you get a clue that you shoud get out asap. do not enable that human being who broke your coronary heart administration you. you may want to enable it bypass, possibly that human being replaced into no longer propose to be for you. you've gown up, placed your head up and shop going. once you a lot less envisioned you'll discover the right human being, yet in case you do not enable bypass no one will come close to you. you do not favor to be sporting a bypass for something else of your existence. basically shop going, bypass out meet people and do not enable that human being who broke your coronary heart administration your existence. God bless you.
2016-11-25 20:45:41 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes i had. I was in love wit this girl, she did me wrong. She was a lier and all my go friends told me that she wasn't right for me but i didn't listen and i found out the hard way. When my heart got broken i was more than pissed off at her than sad. She still stays on my mind but not in my heart. The way she did me was so low when anybody speaks her name i can't stand it, but through it all i still stand strong and i move on........i have a life to live.
2006-09-08 06:20:00 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
If you got it bad for a man./woman, you can't eat or sleep. You may even feel depressed. You even think about them all the time. If this ever happens to you, your best outlet is to be with your close friends to get your mind of of the person that broke your heart. Try not to be by yourself.
2006-09-08 06:14:05 · answer #9 · answered by LuvAll 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, it feels like all of that.
It feels like something is being ripped out of your stomach, and lack of sleep is due to a lot of thinking "what if"...
It is a horrible thing to go through, but it usually is good in the end because you end up learning lessons about relationships and yourself and other people. It helps you grow.
2006-09-08 06:14:54 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋