2006-09-08 06:07:56 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Date a guy who has been castrated!
2006-09-08 06:09:55 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Say, "How do you do...? Would you like to get married...?" to every guy you meet... The first one who doesn't run for the hills will probably be the guy... LOL
But seriously, probably the best pond to fish in would be at a church... At least there, the command NOT to have sex outside of marriage is an understood, appropriate, behavioral guideline...
Tell him God set things in a specific order when He created us.
Try thinking of life as a book... Sex belongs between the chapters titled "MARRIAGE" and "LIFE TOGETHER."
While the relationship is still new (and he knows sex is inappropriate at this stage), dig deep into what and who he is... Find out BEFORE he starts losing patience with you as you may wish to have a different father for your children...
Sex changes things in a relationship... I think that's WHY God put it AFTER marriage... If only things were different, but they're not...
One other thing, doing things correctly does NOT mean you won't have problems...
2006-09-08 06:27:27 · answer #2 · answered by KnowhereMan 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell him about someone else's experience of not having sex before marriage, than point out that you have the same beliefs. He should get the message.
2006-09-08 06:16:26 · answer #3 · answered by kami_morris 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Boy, usually the sex ends after you get married.
Seriously, you are in control of your virginity. As a relationship progresses with a man be honest and talk to him as to why your virginity is important to you. Even a good man will try to sleep with you because love and passion work hand in hand.
Many men will complain, but a good man will respect your wishes and abstain.
2006-09-08 06:13:57 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Dating and sex are not mutual inclusive. You don't have to have sex before marriage -- it's a personal choice. If you don't want to, then you don't. Just be sure to be upfront with your date so he knows what to expect. Then he can decide if he wants to play by your rules or not.
2006-09-08 06:10:38 · answer #5 · answered by kja63 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just tell him up front that you are waiting for marriage to have sex. No matter what! And avoid any situations that may tempt you. It has been done. If he's worth keeping he'll be fine with it.
2006-09-08 06:10:16 · answer #6 · answered by Alison 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That is a good moral attitude first of all let me say, but the secret is that men like to chase you, and deep inside if you give sex to them there is nothing really to look forward to...no more mystery. So keep it going and the right one will appreciate you making him feel like a real man. ;)
2006-09-08 06:14:58 · answer #7 · answered by Me 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Simple, if you dont want to have sex before marriage, a man cant really do a damn about it. =) You rule!
2006-09-08 06:11:45 · answer #8 · answered by tainted_aven 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Find a man with similar values that respects your choices. If he tries to cajole you into doing something you don't want to, ditch him and move on to a man that is worth your time.
2006-09-08 06:11:13 · answer #9 · answered by Bug's Mama 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey, in my view 95%men are just waiting for you to have a date with you. You can straight way say '?'can we sit with a cup of cofee and talk ?'
2006-09-08 06:17:07 · answer #10 · answered by soofi 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lay down the law! tell them you dont want to have sex b4 marriage and if they have a problem, move to the next one.
2006-09-08 06:10:13 · answer #11 · answered by Ash 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋