I had a misscariage back in march 06, and a tubal pregnancy in march of 02... So far i have one child, she is 8... Is something wrong with me?? doctors didnt find anything wrong the last 2 times.. I'm already feeling cramping in my lower left plevic area.. I want this child mmore than anything in the world..
2006-09-08 05:34:57 · 12 answers · asked by LilStar_Mom_of_3 3 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Other - Pregnancy & Parenting
I KNOW you may say this is easy for me to say yet relax. DON'T let your nerves get the best of you and your baby. I have a stillborn in 97 and then a miscarriage in Jan. When I had my stillborn that REALLY though me because they told me that I could NEVER have anymore kids. Yet I have a 8 year old healthy boy. and Since Jan. I got preg. again. I am almost 15 weeks do I worry I would be a lier if I told you no. Yet, my Doctor told me the more I worry it affects the baby so I hold my head up and tell my self EVERYTHING will be OK. Hun you should do the same. BEST WISHES
2006-09-08 07:54:39 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was that way when I miscarried and became pregnant, I did not want to even walk for fear I would miscarry again. When I heard his heartbeat I was so happy, but each visit I was worried that I would not hear it again. Then when the ultrasound came, I only watched the heartbeat. He is 2 1/2 yeaars now.
Before that I had a girl and never thought I would miscarry. She is now 8 almost.
I have a 6 month old now too, but I thought I was gonna lose her when I started to bleed at 3 months pregnant. I was so scared and the blood loss was a lot. I went to the ER and they said the baby was fine at the time, but to followup. She was fine and is healthy and happy.
Paranoia is what had me with my son and with my daughter, I don't think any of my pregnancies will ever be normal since I miscarried.
I also realized that since my D-n-C, I have had worse cramps during that time of the month and with my pregnancies after that miscarriage. So maybe if you had a D-n-C, that could be the cause of the cramping, and your last miscarriage was not that long ago.
Still you can see your doctor if you have any questins or concerns, but try not to stress yourself out thinking about it too much, that is not good for the baby.
GOOD LUCK!!
2006-09-08 12:52:39 · answer #2 · answered by fatiima 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know exactly how you feel. I had a successful first pregnancy and have a healthy 6 year old. I've had 5 miscarriages since. They didn't find anything wrong with any. I'm now 12 weeks pregnant and feeling more secure, but definatley worried. I was put on progesterone and baby aspirin at the start of the pregnancy. Please call your doctor if you are concerned about the cramping. It can be completely normal, so don't worry yourself.
2006-09-08 12:41:15 · answer #3 · answered by Mara 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Relax, that is the best advice I can give you, I too have lost 2 and I think a lot of the cramping I felt with my two I have now was psycosymatic. Just let nature take it's course. I know it's hard to handle but the Dr. told me and I truly believe it that misscarriages etc. are natures way of taking care of things. It could be a blessing in disguise, menaing theere was something wrong with the baby and nature took care of it. good luck I hope all turns out well for you this time around.
2006-09-08 12:40:29 · answer #4 · answered by ploobis 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had 2 miscarriages. The first one my water broke at 14 weeks and I lost her. The second one was not really explained. I can say that I have had cramping in my lower left pelvic area also with all my pregnancies but I found out I have ovarian cysts on my left ovary. I now have 2 kids and one on the way! I understand your fear and there's not much I can say to make you feel more at ease but I wish you good luck.
2006-09-08 12:44:17 · answer #5 · answered by mama 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not a doctor, so I won't give you medical advice; and I'm a guy, so I REALLY can't help you with such things. But I will tell you this: Don't give up.
My mom had a total of 4 miscarriages, and was told she'd never have any children. I'm living proof to the conrtary, and so is my younger sister.
2006-09-08 12:51:59 · answer #6 · answered by The_Mystic 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everything will be alright i had a miscarriage in june 06 and one in 03 and i have a 12year old son and believe i'm pregnant now just get plenty of rest take your vitamins and everything will be ok Good luck
2006-09-08 17:12:08 · answer #7 · answered by innocent030 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
GET A LOT OF REST. BE SURE IT ISN'T ANOTHER TUBAL PREGNANCY AND ASK THE DOCTOR CAN HE SEW UP YOUR CERVIX SO THAT YOU CAN CARRY THE BABY FULL TERM. AT THE BEGINNING OF PREGNANCY THERE IS USUALLY SOME MILD CRAMPING. TRY NOT TO WORRY AND EAT RIGHT. REST IS A VERY IMPORTANT FACTOR THOUGH.
2006-09-08 12:41:38 · answer #8 · answered by PRECIANA 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go to the Lord in prayer.
If this child doesn't make it than there is a medical reason why she/he will not make it. You may only be able to have one sex. My daughter lost all of her girls. But she has four wonderful sons.
Pray daily and often and read the bible.
2006-09-08 12:52:47 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
go to www.pamsupport.org there are a lot of other women out there in your same situation and they are a great support circle.
I have a had 2 m/c myself and am still waiting on my miracle baby!
2006-09-08 12:39:58 · answer #10 · answered by smp0404 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋